Why do girls in my school always stare at me but never talk to me?

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I've been called handsome, good looking, cute, sexy and a lot more in my school and I know what they mean. TBH, I am even good in studies and athletics. So, girls always stare at me in my school and some even make comments but don't talk to me. But there is this girl whom I noticed two years ago who behaved a little childish on seeing me. Firstly, when she saw me she turned around as I was walking behind her and then she looked at me, came near me and then ran away. Then, one day when I saw her, she ran away ahead of me but constantly kept looking back at me. She has some guy friends who stare and point at me sometimes. I've also seen her friends whispering something into her ears on seeing me and then all of them started looking at me. I've seen her and her female friends quite a lot of times staring at me. One of her friends touched my back once. Why do they do this? She is also in habit of smiling often when she sees me which makes me think she's interested then one day, when she saw me approaching her, she completely turned around when I was near her. Why did she do that? Its frustrating me a lot? A little help please.

kateknight · Accepted Answer

omg this is so cute. BEFORE ANYTHING. I would like to acknowledge my grammatical fucking errors or sorry I apologize before you come at me and roast me.
but yeah I see huh. in ur case I can say I can relate to you, been there. but lets say I was once that girl too. damn she's weird, well lets just say time goes by, because that was way back from a long long time ago. cringey time. ew. dont u just say she's acting childish. she is childish !!! damn I think that childish girl been watching a lot of cute romantic movies thats why she got that ish or too much cute KOREAN drama (I must say) or even watching too much ANIME which I can tell, that it really do affects in a girls behavior (yes I can assure)

I can tell that she really likes you and she can't resist you because the feeling of ANTICIPATION ( I guess thats the word)

thats just two years ago. if I may ask is does that girl still exist in todays timeline. what do you think of her.

PLEASE ASK HER WHY IS SHE LIKE THAT. by starting why did she just ran away. why her friends poke u at the back.

make sure u know what u feelin and it should sync with ur thoughts tho.

DO YOU LIKE HER?

Sevenyoung · Accepted Answer

This actually got me thinking.

But the way i see it, they stare at you a lot but never talk to you because you're too/so cute or good looking that theyre afraid of attempting and failing. Basically they think you're out of their league, and the closest they could get to you is staring and telling their friends how cute you are or if you're looking back at them too.

I didn't really understand your story with the childish girl (i have bad comprehension) but i think she ran away because she panicked. you're basically Mr. Perfect! Handsome, athletic, and academically intelligent. Whats not to be afraid of right?
Here's a story about my crush similar to that (i wrote about it on here so if you want the really detailed one, feel free to scroll to the very post i made).

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Because they don't want to date you. They just admire your appearance or lusting. Nothing more and nothing less. Plus she's running, because she sees your constantly pursuing her. At the same time. Perhaps she does have a crush but is not certain if she wants to date you. A crush is just a crush. It doesn't mean anything when a person is not doing anything about it. I had crushes too. But it wasn't for the right reasons. Especially when I had no desire to be with them romantically, and I don't even know them! That is how illogical crushes are. I think God everyday I never bothered. They didn't like me as a person anyway, our views were conflicting, they were the embodiment of everything I'm against, and it was always one-sided.

TruthSeeker111 · Accepted Answer

She seems shy, I know that because a couple of years back I liked a guy and we stared at each other a lot but we never really got to talk and sadly whenever I saw him approaching me , he turned around because he couldn't or I turned around because I couldn't so there's a chance that she may like you

MrWolf · Accepted Answer

It's just natural, for this to happen!

It's you who should approach her! Being the cool guy who can do this & that sure does it has it's perks but don't think, that for other people will be normal to approach you easy!
Most will think they will be rejected or made fun off. Kind like my case i don't dwell a lot at this if i am cool or handsome. Still due to my work & what i do people tend to avoid me & are scared of talking to me! Well i don't pay any mind to this so it does not bother me.

Prepare to live with that in mind, that people will act strange around you.
It's normal!

Now for the girl she is drawn to you! As for is it love or not i can't say for sure!
That is for you to see for yourself by asking her either out or talking to her.
And don't worry you're head with why girls act like this or that as far as we man know it's a topic to be avoided :D

siddhant888 · Accepted Answer

Well, women are a very complex creature. No one can understand them completely. What I think is that she is a shy girl and want you to approach her. But you said she turned around when you approached her, it is the case where she was too shy to see you approaching. In this situation, you have to approach to her even if she turns away from you, be confident. Now, show your charm to her. 😉

Dim1213 · Answer

Well I suggest talking to her and breaking the ice. Also you might just apear to be closed off. Check your resting behavior and try to appear more open to interactions.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls don't approach guys. One might eventually but she won't be one of the pretty ones.

lilliank · Answer

literally the girls can figure you're of their league and taken. also almost every girl waits for the guy to make the move.

GirlNextBored · Answer

Do they've stare at you, like, when you come out of the restroom? Like do you get that drafty feeling?

SarahsSummer · Answer

She's giving to all the signs she can but waiting for you to make a move. Do you like her?

blondfrog · Answer

If you're attractive you won't be approached a lot cause people will think you are already taken, if you're unattractive people won't approach you because well your not attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

She has a crush on you silly. Girls can sometimes act this way because they want to be playful. As for girls never talking to you it's probably because you are attractive and they don't know what to say around you. If you have any sort of feeling for this girl. Don't be shy, just talk to her! Usually, the girl always wants the guy to make the first move. I bet you could even ask your guy friends if you think she has a crush on you. They could even ask her friends for you to find out. But I'm almost 100% positive she is crushing on you hard.

Kylie777 · Answer

If you like her then you can just ask her out. She is shy, but at the same time she knows that she has to give you some hints to see if you like her back. Just ask her out the next time you see her.

Teenage_Curiosity · Answer

Sounds like she is too scared to talk to you herself. Whether she is interested or not, confront her. Try to have a convo with her. If you like her, compliment her and tell her you've noticed her little trips to you. :)

fueledbythc · Answer

Girls at work do similar to me. there's one girl who is so nervous around me she can't handle being around me for too long. She tries to hide her feelings around everyone which makes it more obvious. She stares from a distance, biggest smiles when she sees me and blushes when she's near.

Mary_June · Answer

Women are strange. Sometimes you just can't understand them :/

wicket · Answer

awww she's just shy. i can relate with her. Just be patient and understanding maybe talk to one of her friends and find out stuff about her which could help you.

candygirl_9847 · Answer

Do you like her? Why don't you talk to her? She seems to like you a lot that's why she's shy around you. She doesn't want to make the first move that's why she's waiting for you to start to talk to her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Girls almost always want the guy to make the first move. That's just the way it is. What are you doing to get a date with one of these ladies?

Yuna_Nakamoto · Answer

She obviously likes you., she may just be really shy and doesn't know how to start conversation with you, or she may think you have a girlfriend and will admire from a distance.

Darkest_Serenity · Answer

Make the first move  if you don't try , you'll never know either way  and just be tormented by thoughts of "what if"  Go on be Brave

Benk111 · Answer

I didn't read that long post but you should ask her out again (if you haven't already) and don't take no for an answer! Eventually I'm sure she'll reluctantly say yes. Although I should mention I'm not an expert at these things.

tetris · Answer

they're not really into you... girls like to play mind games with us because we are a big joke to them. girls naturally don't give a damn about guys, if they did, they would approach like they where meant to. just get over them girls and forget them.

AwkwardGuy101 · Answer

Well... Do you hear giggling from her or her friends? If so, then all the signs are there... She likes you and you should go for it.

NathanStrat · Answer

she is either shy and likes you or she is practicing flirting, hopefully the first!

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