I notice for alpha males, women are very loyal and this has been my observation from teens to now. I even remember a moment in college, where of a girl was begging for her boyfriend to take her back right out in the open on campus. As usual he was a tall, jacked guy with type A personality and told her to fuck off. In addition, one of the common trends I've notice about girls with these type of boyfriend is that they come to the beck and call of the man. What i mean by this is that the guy sets up the time for when he wants to meet the girl and it's not an equal partnership; he only sees her when he wants her around. So when he wants sex, companionship, love, date night to show her off, she comes running to fulfil these roles but when he doesn't want her around, she is told indirectly to fuck off. This in tern comes the beta orbiters who many women use to fill the missing gaps in their relationship such as lack of attention, affection, complain about their problems etc. The loyalty is so extreme that I've notice guys who don't see their girlfriend for several months/weeks and these girls remain loyal to them as fuck. On the flip side, I've notice more men who are on the beta side, took the friendship route and time to get to know a girl, are very loving and try to please their GF/Wives often end up getting cheated on, dumped or divorced. If this doesn't occur, they often get disrespected or blown off by their girlfriend a lot.
There is no such thing as Alpha males or any other males. We're not animals. We're human. Men are men and women are women. Sadly your description of those kinds of men are in fact, just master manipulators. They don't want love. they want sex. They don't want commitment, they want to use you. Even if they get married and eventually have kids, unless he learned to change and become the man he's supposed to be and is married to somebody who challenges him every day to be the best man he can be, he's still using her. Even the kids. And the women who they attract are:
A. Virgins: Only those who are naive and sheltered, and unwise. Smart virgins who knows the game will STAY AWAY FROM them. And my favorite term, 'Haul a** as fast as you can!'
B. Inexperienced: Especially when she doesn't know what Love really is. She fell in love all right. And that's the problem with falling in love. It's not LOVE.
C. Insecure: If she fits the bill A+B=C! The so-called Alpha's LOVE to prey on girls like this. It make's him feel like he's in control, while she often gives up the control to him. By giving up her dignity.
So to go to the so-called 'Beta's' here's the problem with these guys who often get's stuck in this problem:
A. Promiscuous: A person who's like this often goes for the males who are already emasculated. They'll get bored eventually, but the love the control over weak men. What makes them weak is not they're kindness, loyalty, and love. It's the fact that he doesn't know that he's being used. And even if he does, he still believes like many women believe's with the so-called bad boy stereotype: he can change her.
B: Followers: Women who are influenced by other women.
C. Unwise Women: A woman who doesn't know what she needs in a man often settle for less, and often get more than they can handle. This has 0 to do with being friends first. Many successful relationships started out as friendship. It lasts longer than dating complete strangers who you want to get to bed that same night. These women at the same time, believe in a fairy-tale like men do about marriage and relationships. Marriage is not about happiness. It's about commitment and your obligation out of love to fulfill your vows. You're married because you want to have sex, to have children, and to life live in a marriage with somebody. And your desires are intentional, not for you to marry just to divorce when things go south. Just because you're unhappy. People are not marriage ready.
I disagree. Last year I liked an alpha male that I wasn't dating. He was too young for me so I knew the chances of us together would be low. As soon as I met a guy that was smarter and hotter than him - I completely lost interest in him and regretted not going for the other guy. If I had the rate the alpha male from attractiveness - I would have given him a 10 out of 10 - but I didn't love him - I only liked him - not even in a sexual way - but I did not love him.
to tell you the truth it really depends on the girl, if it were me and a guy treated me like dirt he'd be out on the curve probably never even had a chance. but when a guy pays that much attention and love to me I flip and go head over heals and try my best to do the same to him. now if this happend and the girl cheats it really just the girl and is mainly the guys fault for have such bad taste in women.
There's a level of confidence and security that an alpha male brings to a relationship. The female truly knows she can rely on him to be a provider. I'm not saying girls should rely on men to provide, but usually the ones attracted to alphas do rely on them. Meanwhile, the women who go for loser guys don't have that security. The lack of confidence makes them look elsewhere to a more stable man.
Because they are highly sought after and in limited supply. This means he is not as easily replacable as other guys areand the girl can't afford to lose him.
We're not considered animals anymore because we have more than primal instinct or the need for Alpha-Beta-Omega roles. But by your definition, I am dating a "beta" and I'd never hurt him in those ways. I respect him and love him more than anyone else
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