What does it mean when a girl compares you to her ex-boyfriend?

[James990]

So i had a disagreement with a girl, we haven't really spoken since, but a friend on told me that she told him that she can forgive me but not her ex! He thought this was a bit weird as she is comparing me to her ex-boyfriend. Someone she was in love with, any thoughts girls? Why would she do this?

[1800angel]

she wants you to do the things her ex did. because i compared my boyfriend with my ex to hint to him what i wanted out of him

[James990]

Cool thanks, just one question, the same girls, showed me a bow in the middle of her bra, after complaining her bra was hurting. What do u make of that?

[1800angel]

depends who is this "same girl" i did not read your full question, i just read the title

[imsri]

that means she is not still over her ex...

[Chief117]

behavior control and modification tactics

[James990]

Huh?

[Chief117]

bro she is using examples about her ex so that you feel slightly threatened and bend to her demands... otherwise she should accept you as you are... unless something is seriously wrong

[Rocky0_0]

don't you think you're reading too far into this?

[Rocky0_0]

I think it could just be set as an example it doesn't have to mean anything, or at least not that dramatic

[Chief117]

well the human brain is complex

[Chief117]

I didn't mean it to be this dramatic

[Chief117]

I don't think the she doesn't means anything... besides if she had to tell if something was wrong... she would have just said what the problem was and not use ex (stimulus) as an example... I hope you see my logic

[Rocky0_0]

Yeah, I do but I don't know I still believe that it might have been just an example with no meaning into it

[James990]

@Rocky0_0 , its what i thought but its my friend saying why would you compare someone to the person you once loved... now thinking about it... we really do fight a lot, she annoys me & i annoy her. Something weird happened a few weeks ago, she was complaining about her bra hurting her! I can't remember what i said, but she told me it was red with a bow in the middle of it! So i just laughed it off! But later on, she unbutton her blouse and showed me the bow in the middle!

[Rocky0_0]

because you compare two people with whom you've spend time with so you know both pretty well

[Rocky0_0]

she can't compare you to a friend because you're not a friend