because some girls want to raise a family in good wealth, some want to be known as "the girl who's dating a rich guy", some have no money so they think becoming a gold digger will help (over 3/4's of the time it doesn't), and some just flat out have an issue with being addicted to money.
i personally find it stupid because money don't define personality...
and also, i have no intention on becoming a gold digger because to me, they're just selfish and greedy girls looking for a rich guy to live with
some girls also become gold diggers so they can have sex and get paid by the guy (i know, really messed up) because some girls say "i won't have sex unless you pay me because then it means you really want my body"
There are lots of male gold diggers, they are usually just much smarter and less obvious than female gold diggers. Just look at GAG, almost every day there are questions of women who have had boyfriends using them for money. I personally know of a woman who had to pay hundreds of THOUSANDS of dollars to his ex husband after a divorce. Yes, it happens less often than the other way around but it's getting more and more common.
And literally NONE of my friends expect guys to pay on a first date. I'm happy to pay the entire bill if I like the dude. Stop generalizing just because you have had bad luck with women.
dude.. it totally depends upon the woman... if she is a genuine girl who loves you , she won't run after your money. so it becomes guy's responsibility to analyse that whether she is only with you for money or she genuinely loves you
Three guys I've dated used me for money so it's not all women. Guys always go for the pretty girls with the horrible personality that expects men to give them money and shit so yeah.
Have you ever heard of a Gigolo? Some are prostitutes and most others are men who are attached to women who support them. You paint "most" women with an awfully broad brush. Most are not what you claim they are. I have no problem with women and I don't have much. They are much more interested in who and what the guy is. Treat a woman right while being "real man" and money just isn't that important. I speak from years of experience. Your attitude will cost you many chances with good women. At least keep it to yourself, though the smart ones will see through you.
Because they can be. A lot of guys "allow" it and foolishly spend tones of money on them. And they dress it up by saying things like "I want a guy to take care of me" - You can't take care of yourself? On one hand though I get it, I mean, if I got all kinds of things from someone, why not if they're fine with it. Unfortunately it happens so much it's become "normal" to them now and even expect it. Guys! STOP DOING IT.
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Women aren't gold diggers. They are just more willing to take what is offered and generally more are offered to them compare to men. You have a lot more women playing strippers than men. It is men are more willing to pay for women compare to women paying for men.
Also, people do not appreciate the value of money until they have a real need for money.
Your parents have fallen into debt. You have a dead-end waitress job. An older guy, clean, matured and generally pleasing offer you a short-term, $10,000 a month salary, 2-3 days of work a week as his 'personal' assistance as he travel around the world for business and leisure. You know this is not going to be a plain platonic relationship. What would you do?
Love how instead of taking criticism with a grain of salt, you get butt hurt responses like...
"The STFU and stay single"
Men want women for nothing but sex.
Women want men for money, power, stature, fame, anything that benefits them in life.
We use what we have to get them, they use what they have to get us.
It's the way male female mating is. In the animal kingdom males have to use their dominance to get the female. Their dominance is gained by stature, power, etc.
It's simply and animal instinct and we are all animals.
Because it's instinctual. Women are natural hypergamous and want to date a man who is better than themselves and has resources she can possibly leach off of. If you haven't checked it out yet, you should check out MGTOW. Its a group that discusses these sorts of things all the time.
you've never heard of men being sugar babies? That's a thing sweetie, look it up before u say something that makes no sense
I make my own money, split on the first date, and make more than my boyfriend, have ever since we started dating, he was unemployed during our relationship and I supported him.
Zing.
Demi Moore and Sean Friday... Typical Sugar Mama.
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Saying most women are goldiggers is like saying most guys are cheaters and players.
Most girls want someone who is stable and self sufficient.
s I make and have more money than my boyfriend :)
do i excuse him of being a gold digger? nope.
I know it is hard to believe since I am a girl, but money doesn't mean that much to me. I'm just glad there are so many things in life you can make do without. If we can manage, I'll be ok. Most women aren't really gold-diggers. Some are, but not most. And it's very easy to spot one, just know the precautions.
"If women place such an importance on the money, then I want no relationship with women."
We all know the reason you think you won't have relationships with women is because you're broke.
Consider the possibility that your attention might be caught by those 'gold diggers' and that you overlook the majority who isn't into 'gold digging'
I'd rather pay for my own stuff than have someone else pay for me. If I want my own money I'll earn my own money, I don't need a guy to do that for me lol. I always offer to pay my half.
I feel sorry for your mom. She was there for the money and ended up having to endure 9 months + pregnancy, and then years raising a specimen like you.
Not all, is not like all men are liar cheaters but a lot of them are.
I think women are simply attracted to money and they things they could do with it. not all women are entirely focused on money but I do think its important to many
Don't date women if that's what you think of them then. Ridiculous to label most women like that.
Because most of the non-gold diggers are taken in stable relationships m8
Why are most mean perverts?
nah, not most. I make my own money
I don't think most women are gold diggers. Most girls I know are okay with splitting the bill.
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