I didn't say hi to my crush today?

[Girlmm2000]

I saw my crush today and I usually talk to him, but I couldnt bring myself to say hi. He saw me before what i did, and didn't say hi, although to be fair, qe werent lose enough. He is a little older than I am and he was with two other people so it was very hard for me. Anyways, he was sitting with those two other people and I went to ask the girl a question, without even looking at him. He looked at me but I couldnt bring myself to look him in the eye. I asked the girl the question I had and just awkwardly walked away. Oh yeah, right when I came his sister was like two seats behind him calls his name and he looks back but turned back to look at me. I feel really bad about it because he gives me hugs and stuff and I've liked him for such a long time and we known each other, but I still couldn't say hi. I think he realizes that I have a really shy and calm personality. What do I do know? Do u think he got the wrong message? We glance at each other a lot and he sees me. What can I do to fix this? I see him again in a week. Thank u!

[Anonymous]

Girl, I am scared to death when I see my crush. I pretend I can't see him, pretend I don't like him, etc. But I realized that if you just hide your feelings from him, there's going to be a day when he gives up. My crush has asked my to hang out with him and his friends multiple times, he compliments me, talks about me with his friends, and he used to look at me in the hallway, smile, and say hi. But because I didn't give him too much to work with, he seemed quieter. He doesn't look at me anymore. But when I talk to him, he looks me in the eye and smiles. So I decided to initiate hanging out with him and his friends again. (so he feels more comfortable). I don't know weather or not he has feelings for me, but if he does, I don't wanna lose him. Just say hi, don't be scared. It's just a normal human interaction. The fact you don't talk to him is worse than just saying hello. What do you have to lose? Don't always wait until you are comfortable or you'll wait forever. Take a chance and go for it!

[Girlmm2000]

The question is do u think he'll give me a chance or will he take it as a no and give up there? I am worried he took it the wrong way and I don't know if I should tell him if I was shy or if u should act as if nothing happened. t

[Opinion Owner]

If he gives up after one setback, then he's not even trying.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure he won't make a big deal out of it if he likes you

[Dhi99]

Could you please help me. I am a guy and there is this girl that I kind of know. We did not come across each other for a month or so and suddenly one day we run into each other. Maybe due to this we were both very surprised to see each other. We kept looking at each other for few seconds and finally I gave a smile and said “hi”.
She responded with a smile but did not say hi. She kept looking at me. I said how are you? Again she did not reply but kept looking at me with a smile.
I said “you are good right?”
She did not say a word and just kept looking at me with a smile.
I repeated “ you are doing well right” 2–3 times and finally she nod her head.
Why was she not responding to me but looking at me with a smile. If she wanted to not talk, she could have left. But she did not leave and she kept looking at me with a smile

[Artificial Intelligence]

Best Ways to Say Hi To Your Crush

The best way to say hi to your crush is to be confident, funny, and sincere. First impressions are everything, so make sure you come across as someone they would want to get to know.

Here are a few tips on how to do just that:

• Smile and make eye contact. This shows that you’re open and friendly.
• Compliment them on something you noticed, like their outfit or hair.
• Ask them a question about something you have in common. This shows that you’re interested in getting to know them.
• Make a lighthearted joke. This will show that you have a great sense of humor and you’re not taking yourself too seriously.
• Be yourself! The most important thing is to be genuine and let your personality shine through.

[Guy__]

How do you like this site after 15+ years?

[dustybiker]

I would say you gave him the wrong message, yes. It’s human nature to make assumptions. People tend to think the worst as self defense. He probably thinks something is wrong with the could shoulder.

Be brave like thousands of woman before you. Go ask him out.

[dustybiker]

And someone promoted an ancient question…. yay GaG.

[Anonymous]

Just talk to him and say hi! Don't be afraid to show that you like him. You've got nothing to lose.

And oh, he usually hugs you?

I mean, it depends on his personality but it sounds as if you're both close or he may even likes you back.

But, anyway. Shoot ur shot. This way you'll know your answer for sure!

Wish u the best. You got this!

[AviatorTom]

There are two things you can do:

1. Ask a close friend to talk with him and let him know that you like him, and would like to go out with him, but you're shy.

2. Try to get over your shyness and just ask him out to coffee.

[melodicsunset]

This is almost exactly what happened with my crush OMG. The only difference are I said hi but she didn't. I don't hug her at least not yet and wasn't hanging out with people when it happens. We don't really talk that much but we do look at each other from across the room a lot. She used to say Hi to me though but she didn't say it that time and just sat next to me

[nawtee_me]

Before he gets the wrong idea and moves on to someone else you need to get out of that shyness. It is cute and all but once he thinks you no longer want to be around him he will move on.

[OneManOnly01]

This is it, you’ve lost him. Now he’ll disappear into the abyss and you’ll never see him ever again.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

THIS, will fix all your problems

https://www.youtube.com/embed/RC68wUao3II

[Fuentes]

Women say hi to me all the time and I think nothing of it then they're being friendly. So I think you should start stepping it up lol

[melodicsunset]

Oh my God that is so true. Hi means nothing. If he's interested in her ( which I think is highly possible) he would think that you know about his feelings for you so your trying to distance yourself from him to avoid leading him on or you just plan hate him.

[Princeofanons]

Just say hi next time and be more open?

[Girlmm2000]

I'll try, but do u think he took it as if I don't like him? Do u think he'll ignore me next time he sees me? He usually says hi and hugs me or something

[JosyJosy]

You go ahead and say hi and tell him you're shy.

[Iron_Man]

Next time you need to say howdy neighbor