My Girlfriend Cheated on Me?

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Last Saturday my girlfriend decided to go out to the bar, with some of her friends. I was invited, but wasn't really in a mood to go to the bar as I had been out all day and was just really tired. I told her to go out and have a good time and that I was just gonna go watch the fight with one of my friends. She was disappointed that I wasn't coming out, but understood.

At around 11pm I started getting text messages from her saying that she loves me and such and wishes I was there cause she wasn't haven't a great time as it was pretty much all couples. I responded just try to make the best of it and go home shortly. An hour later random texts started coming in. I knew by that point she was drunk. At 1am the texts were still coming in, so I called her to see how she was doing. She told me she was just about to leave the bar and was going home. She advised she was gonna catch a cab.

The next morning I was supposed to do some outdoor renovations for a friend, but got canceled due to rain. I tried calling her a few times, but there was no answer. It's not like her not to answer her phone when I call so I decided to drive over to her house and make sure she was okay. I rang the doorbell a few times until finally she answered. She was in her robe and underneath wasn't wearing anything. I stepped in the house and she started pushing me out the door saying she was sick and had puked all over the place and didn't want me seeing it. I told her that I've seen her puke before and it wasn't a big deal. She insisted for me to leave for 5 minutes so that she could clean up. At that point I knew she had someone there. I pretended to leave and then when I walked back up to the front door saw the guy she had brought home from the bar leave through the back door. She admitted her mistake and then said nothing happened. She said they just made out and passed out. I didn't buy that and was outraged, I told her that that was it. We're over. She broke my heart and I could never look at her the same again. After a few days of not talking to her she called me and stuck to the same story and said that she loves me and misses me and wishes it would have never happened. I took it upon myself to message the guy on fb (he was on her friends list and she had told me his name). He apologized to me and said that they didn't have sex but made out and passed out. Same story she told me. She told me that she hasn't spoken to him since I saw him leave on Sunday morning so they couldn't corroborate the story. My question. What do I do. I'm starting to believe that they just made out, but should I take her back? It's not right what they did, but it could have been worse, or with that intention to cheat, do you think I could ever trust her again? Any thoughts?
My Girlfriend Cheated on Me?
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