She actually didn't respond which is rude. I think a part of me knew she wouldn't.
Either way I did wonder.
Think about it what should she say thank you? If all her friends said happy birthday does that mean she would have to say thank you to each one?
It's her birthday so why are you being offended? Say happy birthday and let her enjoy her day geez.
may have done something she didn't like or she's petty or didn't know who you are
lol no she knows who I am.
I guess her messages to me have always been distant but I was os nice to her.
I said, "Happy birthday, was just remembering you the other day."
I don't know maybe she felt we aren't close enough for me to say that? I always felt like she didn't love me as a friend as much as I loved her
She's a bitch. Don't bother with her. If you can take time out of your day to wish her, she can reply.
The thing is, I considered that she might never have liked me that much as a friend in the first place.
Saw my message as me clinging on to the past.
Then don't belittle yourself into overanalyzing why she didn't reply. Her not replying proves to you that she didn't consider you a friend. You did a good thing by messaging her and she made you feel stupid. Don't let anyone have that power over you.
Hmm could it be there's a misunderstanding?
She was one of the more positive influences in my life but she said I had a habit of dominating her.
No misunderstanding there. It was blatant disrespect. I undergrad that you valued her, but she obviously doesn't value you the same way.
But why would she do that?
Most people wouldn't ignore someone being nice to them without a reason
Well, it's up to you to confront her. We can't assume what the issue is without knowing exactly what happened. Just ask her if it matters that much.
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No idea. Maybe she had a bad day.
She's probably busy.
She replied to other people's wishes
She's always been a bad friend that way.
I remember when we were little she forgot about my birthday sleepover. I was hurt.
I pretended like nothing happened
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