Shy girls are awesome...
Especially the combination you're talking about...being ambitious, intelligent and introverted. I guess I like that because I can relate to it myself. Girls like that really catch my eye.
The only problem with shy girls...and I'm not going to say this is a problem with all shy girls but at least a number of the ones I've run into...is that they can be mean and have a tendency to play mind games with you.
I think some guys might just instinctively avoid girls like that because of the hassle. I've never been into party girls, but I've gathered that while no woman is easy to read, a lot of guys go for party girls because they're easier to deal with. The party girls have more consistent behaviors. And at least the friends of mine I know, who aren't really looking for party girls but still go for them, tell me that it's easier to tame a party girl than to give confidence to a shy girl.
I would never turn down a shy girl for being shy...but I might play it cautiously, and that's partially because I myself am shy.
I'm talkin just about me here... but I don't like shy girls... I'm a loud person & I don't want to feel like I'm dating myself. I don't like party girls either... I just need a match & some girls just does not go with me. I think that other guys can find you a perfect match though... who knows.
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well your a girl, shyness does not hurt a girl's chances of getting a boyfriend nearly as much as it hurt's a guy's chances of getting a girlfriend, because us guys are expected to initiate literally everything, take the lead.
Shy girls are very cute, but they suck at flirting or giving signals. That's why i avoid shy girls now. All the shy women that found me attractive confessed they liked me about a year later. I moved on after 3 weeks.
I freakin' hate shy girls. They're so boring, prude, and a waste of f-ing oxygen.
I don't like shy girls, sorry.
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