I think it all depends on The Situation. No, not the guy from jersey shores -.-. I'm talking about what happen between the two. Such as If they are acquaintances, friends, close friends, lovers, ex's, or still together. Since you don't really provide much information on the situation. I'm going to make some guesses from my/friends experiences. [key: > = no interest]
acquaintances- If you two just met, and He seems like he is really in to you, then this question might indicate, He knows you liked him at the start but now, Your not giving enough signs to assure him that your indeed still into him as well.
(Playing hard to get is a powerful strategy and works every time. But play to hard and he'll think your just not that into him.)
>If you two just met, and He already seems like he's backing off then this question might indicate, He is trying to see if ignoring you and staying away a bit can throw you off a bit or give you a hint. He might just want to be friends.
Friends- If you guys are friends and things are going wonderful, He is really in to you then maybe by asking "do you still like me?" can mean, He is making sure your on the same page as him.
>If you guys are friends but the road is kinda bumpy such as you lean closer to him and he kinda slides away a bit , He might not like you in the way you like him, so he might really be asking "Heyy, I like you and all, but as I got to know you more as friend. I would like it to stay this. what about you?".(Friend Ship Zone .Not quite Boyfriend & Girlfriend But still Awesome. If he Asks you this But never really showed a romantic interest in you. But knew you liked him then, That could mean, He likes some one now. But doesn't know if you still like him. After all If he is truly your best closest friend then he would never want to hurt you.(unless it's over the Telly :] lolz)
Lovers- If you two were or are lovers then perhaps he might have developed feelings for you that you had for him once but he is not sure you still have them.
>If he seems to be backing away or not "enjoying" it as much, He might mean "we had are heated moments but I'm interested in another now"
Ex's- He might still like you or got his feelings for you back. >He thinks you still do. He might not like that so he is making sure if you do or not.
Together- He's probably just kidding around :P (if he's a jokester) >He feels like you lost interest in him.
Either way be straight forward with him say "_Your answer here Yes or No_, Why? Do you still like me/her?" It's the only way to find out for sure. Communication is Important in Any relationship.
Good Luck tho
hahahaha gruffman2 got it right the question doesn't neccesarily mean he likes you, but it does GAURANTEE that he definitely STILL wants to stick you with his man sword... lol whether he wants anything more than that I'd say probably not because he'd just ask you out or whatever. Seem like he's being straight forward with the course of action and that course is to your drawers... lol I'd say give him a chance to take YOU OUT and don't let him screw you NO MATTER WHAT he says for a few months and see what he does... cances are hell give up and not even ask you out. DONOT ASK HIM OUT! he has to ask you...
Yes, my answer is yes because generally a person will want to make sure that your answer matches theirs to avoid the embarrassment of them admitting feelings that you two do not share in. Is this guy an asshole? If so he might just be asking on an ego trip and he does NOT like you.
usually when a guy asks a girl if he still likes him, he's trying to make sure that he's investing his time and affection in someone that will give it back whole hartly to him
so yes he still likes her
in response to the update, if you really feel he should be over you, then just use the direct aproach and tell him that you are just not into him. if he should ask why, then just tell him. if he tries to change for you however...then you might want to take a second look.
He could be the person just for you if all you disapproved of was inconsistency, and should he change just for you and you like it, then chances are he was serious from the start. :)
it maybe that he asks you this question not because he still likes you but to see if you you still like him, and he can use your response to gauge weather he still can get his d*** wet but this may not be because he likes you but because he wants a pieceof meat to shag I know a lot of guys who treat girls like crap and its not right but if he did like you he proberly would be groverling to gfet you back not just askin if you like him:)
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It could mean quite a few things, actually.
He might like her.
He might just want to know if she likes him to boost his ego.
Her liking him may have been annoying to him, so he's trying to see if he has a reason to stop feeling annoyed or uncomfortable.
He may want to see if he's got a shot at sleeping with her.
Regarding all the answers...a lot of them don't even consider all sides to this issue, yet they still present their answer as a certainty, so take them as possibilities, not definite truths.
well if he said "still" then you have liked him before or ya'll have already dated... it may mean that you seem like you like him and he is curious... depends on how it was said...you need to give more detail... its not like any harm will be done if you give us more to work with... you are already doing it anonymously... ?
Not so fast. On many occasions men and women talk different languages... studies have documented that women communicate much more effectively in non verbal languages and men are not as sensitive to this.
The question itself indicates that he is picking up the signals of ignoring and the change of feelings, but he has not quite put the math of 1+1+1=3 together yet.
Don't be a coward and "ignore" him. Just step up to the plate and relay how you feel in a mature and sensible way. Use phrases like "I feel..." "I believe..." and not phrases like "you don't..." or "You can't..."
Until you are mature enough to speak to him, don't bash the guy because you've left him hanging...
ive been in this situation myself before. Yes it normally does mean that they still like you, because my exboyfriend asks it me all the time, and I just asked him straight and said 'are you asking me that because you still lke me'' and he said yes but he wanted to know if I liked him still so he didn't feel stupid.
but if youve got over him, tell him straight and he'll have to move on..
it means he is still thinking about you.. about US, about the past time and the future to behold. he wants to start all over again and do it right... that's what men do perfect our flaws in our design to make it right and work... if its unforgiving then leave it be but if it was just a mistake then put that into account. its a choice, yes or no... no MAYBES choose a path and go with the adventure
It could be that he still likes her.
It's also possible that he just misses the experiences he had with her
If he's a little more malicious in nature, it could also be to see if he still has power over you by attempting to show interest himself, get her to reciprocate, only for him to ghost her and make her suffer all over again
Probably... he's just wondering if you even like him anymore.
You know, like when a guy first hooks up with a chick when she gets on birth control... all is good at first and then the BC starts to fuck with her hormones and she doesn't even like what she liked when she was normal anymore and starts packing on the weight... yeah... sort of like that.
No and Yes. Yes because maybe he's tryin to go out wid u.. n, No, because he just likes the fact that you are still not over him. Some guys like having women stay in love wid them, even if he doesn't ever want to go out wid her..
In my experience, it means he likes her, and he's probing the situation to see if it's worth his time, energy, and even his resources to continue pursuing anything with the woman in question.
I've been that guy before. I ask that just to see if it's a good or bad use of my time and to avoid emotional damage.
well how do you know its true if you haven't asked him and for all you know, one of his friends likes you and wants to hit that lolz
well... He's asking if you still like him because he likes you...
Guys are pretty simple.
yea he does
and he likes not being able to have you
so that's prbly it
but time will get it on
u can try being clean and saying we should not get back into this
Not usually, he could be just asking to you know. Some Guys just like to know if someone likes them or not && if you say no, they will flirt with you && stuff until you do start to like them, then they will shut you down, hurt you so bad.
he may or may not like her...depends on the way he says it!
he still likes you. either that or you keep staring at him a certain way and its freaking him out.
Yeah, seems like he still likes you. When he asks you that question what is your answer? I hope you tell him no or otherwise you are just playing games and he can't get over you.
in most cases yes ! ( only if he was making fun of it : you ll know from the attitude ) :)
Whatever it means in his own personality is what it means. There is no defined answer for that phrase or any logical response. He might be worried or something.
A girl certain won't ask a guy a question like this probably she doesn't like or even love d guy,.so it mean she likes him
I am in a similar situation. The guy and I went out on a date. Everything was gping well until he said some things that dissapointed me, and we ended up staying as friends. He didn't talk to me for a while until recently. He started messaging me , and today he asked me if I still had feelings for him , and even said he noticed that I don't message him as much. What does he want? He confuses me...
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