Hardcore Eye Contact - Does she like me? (PLEASE HELP!!)

Question

There's this girl in my class who I always catch staring at me. I always catch her staring at me at least 5 or 6 times within a 2 hour period. I'm 100% sure she's looking at me because there aren't any good looking people that sit around me, no offense to them. That and every time I catch her looking or she catches me looking, we make eye contact and just stare for a few seconds. I've also seen her looking at me through the corners of her eyes.

I've seen her quickly look away when I catch her looking sometimes.

During our 10 min break I wait outside the classroom hoping she'll stop and say something but she usually just looks my way and walks past me. After class she heads out pretty quick too. If she was into me she would at least say something right? I'm about a 6 or 7 on a scale of 1-10 and she's like a 9 or 10 which also concerns me.

So do you think she might be into me? Is she just staring because I am? Do women repeatedly stare at guys for no reason? Any suggestions on how I can approach her?

GentleGiant · Accepted Answer

sh*t son. grow some balls!

if shes; starring at you then she deffo likes you.

im in the same boat as you and I broke the shyness barrier!

just ask her out. (or get to know her first) don't keep those feelings in your gut.

trust me it might sound scary but once you ask her out the WORST she can tell you is "no" and oh well her loss :)

but she does seem to like you.

don't wait too long. or you might loose her.

ask her out.

if she starts making up bullsh*t like "oh I don't know I'm busy blab bla bla" and doesn't propose a diffrent day just forget about it.

or you can ask her a 2nd time and if she doesn't purpose a diffrent time then forget about it.

pandaninja · Accepted Answer

I have officially decided that I will award once a day an award to the first just plain stupid question I read beginning now Nov 25, 2010. This is today's winner! Congratulations on asking a stupid question!  How the hell are we supposed to know if she likes you maybe you just have a weird face, grow a pair and if you like her ask her out, before some big ass jock pays attention to her knocks her up and you lose your opportunity forever unless you have a pregnant fetish.

Laurie182 · Accepted Answer

Im in the same boat here. I like this guy, but I don't know him yet. We do the same thing. I guess if she's like me, she might be too shy and hope you make the first move. She might want to make a move but you give her butterflys? Or she might think what if I sound stupid, what if he doesn't like me? Show her your interested and smile, if she smiles back that's good and go say hi what's up. It definitely sounds like she likes you but is probably just shy and needs a push like me! hahaa hope this helped and goodluck!

yastal1 · Accepted Answer

SHE IS INTO YOU. SHE IS WAITING FOR YOU TO MAKE THE MOVE. JUST GO UP TO HER, AND SAY HI. STOP WAITING FOR HER. During your break, just go up to her, and say hi and introduce your self, and ask her what she's doing, what program she's in etc. And maybe let her know your going to grab a drink, and ask her to come----besssssst thing---try and get her before class, say HI, and then approach and execute during break

shelbysmile32 · Accepted Answer

I would definitely say that this girl has at least got a little crush on you. I always will just stare at a guy that I'm crushing on. She probably is just too shy to say anything to you, and expects you to make the first move. That's what I would want a guy to do, even if I didn't reinforce it. Just keep trying even if it seems like she's not into you, she may just not know how to act.

amber_rubi · Answer

well most girls are waiting for the guy to go and approach her she won't go up to you that has happen to me many times. she is already making the first move by making eye contact so if your interested you should go and talk to her. or sometimes people just stare at random people but it doesn't seem that case...girls are not sometimes attractive to really hot guys more to a guy attitude.'so if your interested you should try talking to her!

Arwens-Fire · Answer

Se sounds like she is shy,hence her not talking to you.You may think you are a 7,but she may think you are a 10.When I like a guy I definitely stare them down,its just what happens. If she is staring it's because she is interested. Approach her by just walking up to her and introducing yourself. It's not weird,its freakin bold,and hot as hell. So what happened?Did you ask her out?

Anonymous · Answer

If she is staring at you that is definitely a good sign that she finds you attractive. At this point though she is probably waiting for you to make the first move because she is probably unsure of whether or not you just find her attractive or you actually want to meet her and get to know her. In your position it can't hurt to make the first move here because at worst you will just start out as friends.

girlsguys99 · Answer

cool, go for it today! but remember that it tkaes more than one try...she might be caught off guard and not react as friendly as she wishes etc...

but anwyays go for it...better to do it than not regret.

tell us how it goes good luck!

girlsguys99 · Answer

she's interested...

just memorize something to say to her related to class like 'what did you think of the test'

but maybe the first time just walk bye and say 'hi' and smile that's it, even if you're nervous, do it :)

mysteri2u · Answer

umm she might like you but she hasn't "figured you out" yet meaning she's not sure if you like her if shell get hurt (depending on her reputation) stuff like next time you catch her staring mouth hi and smile and she what she does back

helpingjessie · Answer

as I have said to my brother before, if a girl looks at you(and notices you're looking at her too) or says hi then runs, IT'S BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU. she's just really shy. try saying hi and having a conversation with her and find out for yourself.

theBlondee · Answer

Well coming from a girl staring is most likely a sign she is in to you, and this is the case she is waiting for you to make the first move.

But of course every girl is different so I could be wrong. She could also be having mixed feelings about you, she might not even know if she likes you or not.

But in most cases if she is holding the eye contact that is a good sign, good luck!

jasun17 · Answer

sounds like she's is into you but...

figure out a way to talk to her...

and notice what she does when she talks to you, like playing with her hair or eye contact or if she says your name a lot (like when she leave if she say bye "your name") these are all signs that she def is into you.

themastaplan · Answer

i didn't read this whole thing...but from the title, she either likes you, wants to phuck you, or wants to kill you  lol

exister103 · Answer

i tend to stare at this attractive guy in my class, I wouldn't neccessarily date him but he's good to look at! and sometimes our eye meet or whatever but I don't mean anything by it aside from he's really attractive.

neardark · Answer

YES  *slaps on the back* go get er son! (I like short answers :) )

LaidBackTraveler · Answer

Maybe she has a lazy eye...  Ever think about that?!?  HUH?!?  JEEZ!  haha

dreadheadMJW · Answer

Go for it. The worst she can say is no.

catherine1818 · Answer

you should talk to her she's obviously just shy(:

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