What does it mean if a girl ignores you?
I started at this place to study, there's a female member of staff (yea she's kinder good looking) never looks at me or talks to me, yet I talk to everyone else and they talk to me, when I need help she never comes over someone else does yet she goes to other older males to help the but not me!.
I really don't get it, I've done nothing to her I don't even know her!, all the other staff like me and I'm a friendly nice bloke. Very strange, anything you girls know?.
When I'm studying she will be loud sometimes wth her collegue, I really am chuffed, I just feel like asking her what's her problem is.
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There are two possibilities:
1) She likes you but doesn't want to make it obvious as it could make the atmosphere awkward and she might fear you do not like her and she will get embarrassed. So she tries to play it cool by ignoring to see how you react. it has worked as you are here on this website posting a question ; )
2) She senses you are into her and is keeping her distance.
maybe you stare at her and it creeps her out.
i remember at the fast food place I work at this really hot girl came in. I didn't realize this til later but I stared far too long as she was coming in, like it was obvious. I'm pretty sure she got offended and thought I was a creep because the whole time I served her she didn't make any eye contact and was really stand offish.
a week later she came back in and as she came I didn't pay her attention, then while serving her I acted like she was just another customer and I wasn't interested in her (I do this with all girls now, works wonders). that time around she acted normal and was even nice to me.
so I think maybe you're just staring at this girl a lot or something (I mean you notice her avoiding you after all this time so you HAVE to be looking/paying attention) and it weirds her out. you should just start avoiding her like how she avoids you
Don't worry about it, if she has a problem then it's hers to solve. If your asking because you're into her, and I'm guessing you are because other wise you wouldn't care, then you gotta be the man and make the first approach. If she continues to ignore you after you try to talk to her then move on and don't look back. If she does respond to you then she was probably just waiting for you man up and take the first step.