Does this stripper like me?

[alanixon90]

i got a dance from another girl, hot as hell, after a couple dances I went and was just relaxing on the couch. she came over and sat next to me. we started talking. she told me where she grew up, where she was going to school etc. after a good half hour of conversation she started talking about other strippers at the club. this stripper was doing coke in the bathroom, this stripper was totally drunk, stuff like that.

it got to a point of comfortable silence, there wasn't a need to be talking nonstop, it was cool to just relax in each others company. she said she was cold so I gave her my hoodie. when she was called up on stage I went and sat down up front. she was dancing, and still wearing my hoodie :) she proceeded to strip, but she never took off the hoodie.

after the song was over she came back and we chilled on the couch again. after a while she asked if I wanted a dance.

now I know the rule, never get a dance from a girl you might want to see outside the club cause then she'll only see you as a customer. but I also know this is how she makes a living, and I was taking up her time, time she could have spent doing dances and making money.

so I agreed. during the dance she asked if I liked the blazers (I live in portland) I was like, of course.

she told me she had 3 tickets to every game, right close next to the tunnel. she said she usually just sold 2 tickets and went by herself, but she asked if I wanted to go with her. I was totally surprised. what is this? she's asking me out? my mind immediately went to the place of, OK is she trying to be an escort? or if not maybe she's looking for a sugar daddy? but then why would she offer to take me to a game, even to the point of providing tickets. after the dance she asked for my number and proceeded to call my phone so I would have her number. (my phone didn't have reception so I never got her number) she then asked me if I was on facebook. I told her how to find me. she gave me her real name when I left.

at first I didn't know what exactly to think. I went home and looked up how to tell if a stripper like you on google.

this site says that there are 6 signs she likes you, and this girl did every one of those things.

my question is this. naturally as the man I'm supposed to call her right? but I never got her number. so I want to back to the club and make sure I get her number, and just chill with her, get to know her more, ask her out maybe.

now I don't want to get a dance from her, cause I want to let her know that I don't just want her body. but I also don't want to keep her away from making money. I mean come on, this is how she pays the rent. so I thought about it and I came to this conclusion, go to the club. when she goes on stage sit up close, and, instead of placing ones on the tip rail, place a twenty. then when she come off stages and asks if I want a dance I'll be like no thanks, but you want to go sit on the couch? then when she goes on stage again, tip big again. what do you think?

[bluntkrayon]

Well if you told her how to get a hold of you on Facebook, and you already know her namely (supposedly), then what would be the point of going to the strip club, and trying it on it there. I mean, really? Tipping $20's and trying to look like something more than a customer? That's a mixed signal if I ever saw one.

But in all fairness, I wasn't there talking to here, so you might have been picking up something that I missing in all of this. I mean if she does like you, since you've looked it up on google, of the signs that would indicate that she liked you, then what do you have to lose (assuming that you don't go down the tipping route).

But a word of warning. If you took a dance, she probably already sees you as a customer. Now she may have talked to you about things that you would consider normal conversation, but that's how they are - they're good with people, and know how to hit the right conversational points. And the biggest point of all - they're people too, just like you, and just like me. If there's something you can talk about with someone, surely you're going to be friendly and just shoot the breeze. I have conversations with people all the time at work; I have conversations with people all the time in the hospitality industry - it's just what we do.

I remember when I went to a strip club with a bunch of mates, for our half yearly get together. She was a Canadian bird, and she sat down next to us. I started talking with her, and found out some interesting points (like places she wants to travel to, and the favorite place she's been to, favorite foods, pets etc) - the funny thing was, even though she was very attractive, I didn't see her as an object, as most guys would. I saw her as a person, and she treated me like one too. She didn't ask if I wanted a dance, she just sat there and shot the breeze. She was just having a drink (which she bought herself when we were at the table), and was going to head home not long after. So make what you will of that situation.

So what I'm saying is, maybe she is interested in you, and you have the means to contact her outside of the strip club, and you want it to be more than a stripper / customer relationship, so why would you want to bring it back to an environment which would suggest otherwise.

Good luck champ!

[brettb]

Yes. Even though it is there job, they are actual people too. so sometimes it could be flattering to them to actually talk to someone that see's them as person rather than something t get your d*** hard. They are used to getting treated like sh*t so someone that is chill with them will actually be better off. be nice to one stripper then all other ones will know your nice, what do you think they talk about when there in the back room preparing? think about it

[lucyskala]

they talk about how much they've just made, or if a guy led them on to thinking they were getting a dance and left, etc.

[CapAnson]

Normally you would NOT want to go back to the club, but if that's the only way to get her number, just drop back by and give some excuse like "well I was supposed to meet my coworker but I don't think he'll show.. I can't stay but since I'm here though give me your number again, it didn't go through last time". DON'T toss any more money her way.

[timetowaste]

This girl makes money by convincing guys that she is into them. And you'd only be falling for that.. she probably makes A LOT of money suckering guys in like you, that is.. like you said, her job. Just like it's a salesmans job to try and sell you a bunch of useless sh*t because he gets commission off of it. You'll be going back, and giving her more money and that's what she's hoping for. If you really think she's into you.. don't go in and don't give her anymore money

[tessamarie]

i think that's expensive. I think it should be as easy to either find her on facebook and be honest and easily explain that your phone didn't have reception at the time and you never got a missed call or a phone number. she will obviously understand and give you the number again. you should have to give her all this money for a number... it almost seemns like your trying to buy her phone number.. when really she gave it to you willingly before.

[Anonymous]

Strippers don't like custies (customers), they like their wallets.

[sinful1620]

If the website would allow me to agree with this answer fifty seven more times, I would.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol.

[lucyskala]

look it can happen, but its's extremely rare

[dtaylor31906]

she gave you her real number after she got your money for dancing so sounds like she may like you a little I mean after your money was in her g-string she could have just left

[playa_pan]

She's in for your $$$

that's what strippers are hired for

[Sarahplus2]

No. She is trying to make money. I have hugged a few of my regulars or ask them about their day.

[DanielSan]

overanalizing much? just find her on fb