While the people telling you to be more loud MAY be right, make sure your friend isn't just hogging attention. I had a best friend who was very cunning and manipulative, and when we would hang out with boys, she got all the attention. She was flirty and got every boy she ever wanted. I on the other hand got no attention whatsoever, and I'm loud and really not unattractive. I'm very outgoing actually. But I got no attention, and it made me feel unconfident and unliked. Now that she's out of my life, I know that it wasn't my fault and that she only wanted to have the attention and probably one-up me. You shouldn't have to change who you are for a guy. Confidence is more attractive than changing for somebody to like you. Check your friends.
They don't. If she's outgoing and they ignore you it's because she draws all the attention from you by being the one to talk. I guess if you is a little more outgoing when with her, the guys won't ignore you and then she won't get all the attention. Try to talk to one of the guys, then you'll show them they can talk to you too and not just her.
I'm also shy and quiet, and guys never walk up to me to start talking, but lots of guys likes me. So even if guys don't tend to talk to you/show you attention, they might like you and maybe even more than her.
Like Super says, Of course you won't get noticed if you're quiet and competing with little miss chatterbox, you don't have to change, just try to hang out with a guy without someone who could overshadow you.
quiet girls are just less aproachable. it gives off the vibe that you don't want to be aproached and/or you're a bitch
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That would probably be because your not making yourself noticed. You don't have to be loud and outgoing, but if you just sit in the corner and say nothing... most guys will think your just not interested.
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