When I'm around my crush, I'm so nervous?

[Anonymous]

when I'm around my crush, I'm so nervous, I can't even talk. nothing comes out but: yeahsosahgdlskjdb from trying not to laugh for no reason. it looked like he always liked me but since I've been acting like a total retard around him, he hasn't been talking to me/hanging out with me as much.

hey, I wouldn't talk to me either if I were him

its awful!

-sweating

-shaking

-unable to speak literally

-heart pounding alarmingly so

how can I stop being so freaking nervous? I hate it and its making me lose every chance for relationship

[Symorg]

Sounds like you need some confidence. The best way to get over this is to do some work on yourself. Be honest with yourself and recognize your own good qualities. Girls seem to fall into one of two categories a lot of the time. The either have no concept of their own good qualities (beauty, personality, humor, etc) and that leads them to be nervous wrecks and have self-image issues. This will eventually lead to a series of abusive relationships if she's not very careful. The other side of the coin is when a girl thinks she can do no wrong and is self-absorbed. At best, this makes her intimidating to men and causes her to lose grip on reality a little bit, at worst it makes her a stuck up person that no one wants to be around.

I say take a few deep breaths and find your own good qualities. Be confident and tell yourself, I mean literally, stand in front of a mirror and tell yourself, that you have a lot to offer this guy and the world in general, because you most certainly do. If you take a little time to build your confidence, you will be able to remind yourself of your great qualities when you're around him and hopefully that will calm your nerves. Good luck.

[SavannahBanana]

You just need confidence. You KNOW he likes you, there's nothing to be nervous about. Just keep your head high, know he likes you and is interested, and show him the best you that you can!(:

[SuperPerve]

wow yeah unhelpful response but I totally ruined it with someone I was seeing cause this kinda sh*t lol.