New relationship, but I still miss my ex

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We haven't even dated 2 months but things have gotten pretty serious with a new guy I've been seeing. I don't like putting a time line to any relationship because everyone is different, but it might be too fast for some people's standards. He already told me he loves me, and I'm not sure I reciprocate yet. I may still be heartbroken for the last guy I fell for. He was my best friend for years, we told each other everything. Then we started sleeping together, but he didn't want a relationship. It still went off and on for 2 years before I ended things. Unfortunately it meant the friendship and everything else had to end. I still miss him. I feel bad because this new guy is great, but I'm still getting to know him. But the connection my ex and I had was amazing, we were practically soul mates. We finished each others' sentences. And I know that deep down we will always care deeply for one another. When he found out I started seeing someone, he wanted try being friends again, but I told him to leave me alone if he wanted me to be happy. I knew that things would not go well with this new relationship if my ex friend/lover was back in my life.

Some days I really miss him. When my new guy starts saying how he cares for me, sometimes the ex-guy comes to mind. I feel awful, but I don't know what I should do.

New relationship, but I still miss my ex
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