Okay, so I'll let you in on what prompted this question: I have a friend who is so gorgeous she that could get away with murder, yet she seems totally oblivious of the special treatment she gets. Like the other day, she and I were studying in the library when it was about to close. The guy at the desk offered to stay an extra half hour to keep the whole library open just so that she could finish what she was working on. (Not that I'm complaining! It worked out for me too.) I was amazed but she, while appreciative, did not seem to think this so extraordinary. Now, I know this girl pretty well and if she believed that she was getting any kind of special treatment based on how she looks, I know she would not allow it. Rather, it seems that she just thinks that the kind of generosity towards others of which she is frequently the beneficiary, is just normal, and that others are just as fortunate as her.
Now for my question: In your opinion, are pretty women aware of the special treatment that they get? Is my friend unusual in her obliviousness? Or do they all just assume that it's natural and that all people are treated just as kindly?
I think pretty girls realize it, they just don't rub it in your face and are modest, I really don't think they don't realize it. I have gotten out of tickets, got discounts at stores and other help just b.c. of being looked at as "attractive" people are much nicer to you. Sometimes, people do the opposite I have gotten people being way hard on me just b.c. of being pretty, very rude remarks stereotypical especially by guy who have some kind of issue with pretty girls (may be been burned or rejected by some?) idk
haha, even tho your friend should answer that question, but I will give it a shot...the thing is, she knows she looks good and she knows exactly that people are being nice to her because of that reason and so she simply takes it as it comes.
so knowing that she looks really good, what kinda guys does she normally go for?
If they've always been treated like that then I'd say that yes, getting treated like a princess is nothing special to her. Which is why I guarantee that she dates ass holes. They treat her bad causing her to feel like they are better than her resulting in her being emotionally attached to what she see's as something good. I wish she could walk a mile in a fat girls shoes.
There are all kinds of ditzes in life... genuinely pretty girls seem to have the worst case. They don't know how good they have it. Hot guys too. Especially the nerds who for some reason think they're not hot... I don't get that one at all...
Anyway, think of it this way, if all your life you got candy for breakfast, how would you know that other people get cereal? Especially if you never see what other people eat for breakfast?
Pretty people don't have to work as hard, it's human nature. Now some take advantage of this and then they become ugly people...but still dont' have to work as hard until their image/looks fade, which as we all know, happens to everyone.
yes. I do get preferential treatment, but I still think it's unfair. There are less attractive girls who are far better people than I am. I know the life is very unfair but this brings out a shallowness I find very offensive.