I know he likes me, but I'm not sure if I like him?

[Anonymous]

So, I'm sure he likes me, considering:

~ He waits for me after our mutual classes

~ Asks a lot of questions about what I do/like, it sometimes feels like I'm being interrogated.

~ Asked me to go to the school play with him

~ And quite a few other things.

But, he's definitely getting a bit annoying/creepy, and I don't know if I like him, what should I do/say?

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Okay, that makes sense.

I've just never really been into the whole high-school dating thing, and I've never had to deal with any of this. I'm definitely sheltered, and I think being seniors/upcoming prom is making everyone act/at least think about it

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So, my other friend wanted to go to the play, and I'm now going. But I felt like I had to tell the guy, cause I told him no for last friday, so yea . . .

According to another friend, he thinks it's basically like a date+1(my friend), which I guess was a

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reasonable assumption, but now I don't have time to be subtle. :/

And now I feel like I've probably lead him on. >.>

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So glad I have the anonymity of the internet, lol.

I've decided I don't like him, and I told him today that I can't see him as anything more than a friend, but I don't think he really understood what I was saying.

I mean, "I don't know if I like you" is

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definitely different from " I can't see you as anything under than a friend" right?

Or do I actually have to spell it out and tell him I don't like him.

[Eiffelgirl21]

It is a good thing that he shows you so much interest. But, it is only in our nature to get creeped out or a bit annoyed. Only because we are wondering why? Why is he so into me like this? If he let up a little it would probably help you figure out if you like him. I would just let him know (without letting him know that you think he likes you) that you aren't ready for a relationship and want to remain friends...good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks, I feel like that would definitely help. I'll try to think of some way to subtly mention that.

[Eiffelgirl21]

Your welcome =) And just to let you know, I had this happen to me..then I freaked out...and later after not talking to him, I realized I did like him...and he moved on to someone else :-/ Just don't take forever to realize if you like him! lol just some advice.

[Asker]

Aww. :/

I'll try not to do that.

[Asker]

Got the second part done, not subtly, but yeaa. >.>

[Eiffelgirl21]

I am a little confused..what is exactly going on now? I tried readin it but I am not getting it..i don't think.

[Asker]

I sort of freaked out due to a friend's comment, and sent an IM (Not the smartest thing to do, I know. >.>) And voiced all my thoughts, and he's just sent one back, saying he'd respect what I thought, so I guess that's good, I just need to do more introspection.

[Eiffelgirl21]

ahh well, then there..he should stop bothering you then..and you should get the time alone from him to see how you feel about him. good luck ;-)

[Asker]

Yea, thanks!

[Eiffelgirl21]

aww your welcome, if you need any help or questions later just contact me ;-)

[Eiffelgirl21]

Yeahh I think they are two completely different meanings lol...I would tell him that you like someone else. That way he will back off. Good luck ;-)

[Trihill]

don't do anything until you aren't feeling annoyed or creeped out by him...you can give him signs or hints to point him in the right direction so he can ask you out