The girl I like a lot keeps touching me. Why is she doing this?

[Anonymous]

The girl I like a lot keeps touching me. ha ha I know that's a good thing, but just hear me out.

We just became friends this year. She is one of those type of girls who just has a flirtatious personality though. So she's kinda hard to read, but I was pretty sure she put me in the infamous "friend zone". Sucks right? But lately, she has been randomly touching me. For example, the other day she walked past me and put her hand on my shoulder, but just kept walking without looking back. Then today, I was sitting behind her at lunch and when she got up she gently dragged her hand across my back. Then when I turned around, she looked back at me and smiled as she walked away.

What do you think that's all about?

[Luopio27]

Its either to p*ss you off, or telling you that she wants something from you, which would be your attention. What people can't have is what they can't resist. The less you give, the more they want.

I got rejected on valantines day, and she is someonei have a common hobby with. After a girl rejects you, you probably here the same old friendzone bullsh*t, but in my case it took less than week to send me an email askin all how I'm doing, advises on that hobby we have, filled with gigli signs and smileyfaces.

Just don't let it bother you, show her you have other girls in your life too.

[stevo_dltnJRB]

dude... be carefull.. ya never know.. I've been in this situation.. she might just be letting you know she's there.. as well as trying to say hi... like "hi.. wink wink.. see ya later ".. some girl jsut like being affectionate.. don't let it get to ya.. and ya never know man.. she might be giving you signals that mean.. "ASK ME OUT DAMNIT!"... lol.. just give it time dude.. you'll figure it out.

[skittledittle]

yeah, the slow hand across the back and smiling over her shoulder...definite girl flirt.

problem is, I don't know if she's just flirty. does she do anything else/has she done anything else to make you feel like she likes you?

[Brandycerenae]

Haha I can't read minds but I def think she's crushin on u. I'm the kinda girl that's really flirty too even though I don't try. I only touch a guy a lot if I like him or I want him to think I like him lolz. Did I kinda help?

[udolipixie]

She's just flirty.

The way to never be put in the friend zone is to grow a pair and tell the girl you like her immediately.

Don't blame her for your inaction.

[soccerguy90]

I disagree, I told her I liked her after 2 months of flirting, and she said she just wants to be freinds, but what is your def of immediately?

[Truthatanycost]

@soccerguy90 The way to avoid the friend zone does not revolve around making declarations of your interest, love, or intention, but through actions. udolipixie is only partially correct.

To avoid the friendzone, you immediately place yourself firmly in the ''lover'' zone by building attraction, flirting, using touch, bodylanguage, and you avoid doing anything a friend would do for the most part.

You present yourself as a sexual being, and you offer no apologies for seeing has in the same way. Then once you've built upon that, you can add a little friendship so it's 99% attraction, and 1% friendship. Guys approach with 99% friendship and 1% attraction and then wonder why she sees them as a friend...

The funny thing is that I've found, once you are seen as the ''lover'', it's very difficult to only be seen as the friend...

[chauntavia]

Uh, she likes you--DUH~ lol ah, I love answering guys questions lol there so easy to answer, well being a girl and all XD

[mizzkeribaby]

hahaha friends can be touchy don't get your hopes up she might know that you like her and just wants to play around..please answer my questions

[cranberri]

She wants to bang you. LoL..

[Bendumse]

She's pherhaps flirty