This girl who is a mutual friend of my group just did something quite odd and out of the ordinary, earlier today she was doing some stuff and it tired her out, before she slept she called me,( for some reason out of the group she only calls me, or makes me priorty to call first) she then wakes up and ask what I was doing ect ect normal chit chat, I said I'm with the group of friends, and she tells me she's going to the gym then.
So as time pass bout hour or so. She gets out of the gym and decides to call me. to see what I was doing, I said I was still here at the friends house, and welcome her to come over. She then tells me she just got out of the gym and there are no girls there so she'll just go home and what ever, I kinda playfully bust her chops and tell her you do whatever you want to do OK and ill catch you later. so then I hung up.
She then calls back 5 minutes later "how do I get there?" at this point I'm already confuse as in to what changed her mind. The house is no where near her house and it isn't on the way, it actually is way out of the way for her but whatever, she then ask does anyone want food she'll buy, and a small order was made. she then comes over, she sits there not really saying anything just eating as us guys were playing games. after she finished she just gets up and says she gonna go cause she got school tomorrow and she wants to shower cause she just got of the gym. I kinda was in my own zone but I notice she was content on being there. so I kinda walked her out, not that it was my intention to, but her mood changed instantly as I walked her to the car. and she was more open and talkative. I asked her why'd you come if you were just gonna leave, she hesitated a little but it seems just just came up with a random excuse saying "I thought someone was following me so I came" it was so random and I could tell it just wasn't real, But it wasn't worth asking anymore questions so I let it go and said our goodbyes
ok, guys, can you fill me in onto what this kind of behavior tells you about her, I don't want to jump into and conclusion but does this girl have something towards me compared to the other guys?
Its weird because even though she is very attractive I've really havn't made any effort into courting with her. we are just friends, and I don't see anything more.
ok well this is what I think! she made you a priority obviously she either likes you or she'd rather hang out with you then the other ones! & she wanted to hang out with you so that's why she called you but since you where with your friends she didn't really want to hang out she didn't want to be the only girl there of course! it would be very awkward for me too... so she didn't want to go but either wanted to see you /hang out /or was bored one of those...& since you kinda said fine whatever don't come she called you & said how do I get there ?...she then prob wanted to see you..THEN When she gets there OF COURSEE she is going to be quiet & shy its 1 girl against all your guy friends so it TOTALLY made her feel uncomfortable with no other girl in the room& when she said she had to go OBVIOUSLY she felt uncomfortable there so she made an excuse to leave that's what I would have done !but when you walked her to her car it was just you 2 so she definitively opened up & about that whole "SOMEONE WAS FOLLOWINGME" noo I doubt it she just didn't wanna b straight & tell you she wanted to visit you overall it seems she likes you or rather hang out with you so yea ! hope I helped
The questions about her behavior? She likes you and wanna spend time with you? She REALLY has a stalker and feels you can protect her? She calls you first (you're the only one she calls) because she REALLY REALLY likes you? She feels shy around your guy friends but doesn't want to be killjoy so she kept quiet and since you didn't try talking to her, she felt out of place? She looks content as she sits quietly but maybe she just LOOKS it? She was more open once you two are alone because she feels comfortable being with you?
Those questions or more can drive you crazy and she probably wouldn't answer you either.
The real questions you should ask is: Do I like her? How do I feel about her? is she more than a friend? More than my best friend? She may like me but do I like her? It seems like she likes me but do I want her to like me? She calls me up in the middle of whatever I was doing, so she must like me but do I like her back? She calls me during a time I was having fun and I didn't mind her calling, I even asked her over so do I like her?
Find out how you feel first. It's definitely easier to understand how you feel first. If you don't like her, then why are you wondering? If she's just a friend and you don't want her to become more, then why think about it? Lastly, do you mind her interruptions? If you don't then you probably like her ;)
She difinitely likes you at the same time she's being really full on calling you like every five minutes. The question is do you like her? If you don't I think you should drop some hints (tactfully) to let her know to back off, like talk about a girl you really do like around her...
lol she was giving you just about every subtile sign that she is interested in you. Like she wanted to spend time witih you to see if she does like you. I think she's starting to feel you up as a potential guy to date. If your interested in her let her know. But she definitely went out of her way to hangout with you.
Well if you don't see anything more, nothing is really there. Maybe she does like you and did a good deed to break the ice. I don't think females would go the extra yard after you bust their chops but...I don't know maybe she has no friends. by the way when you are constantly defining things that are happening, things that someone says or does as weird, most like it is and they are weird to. Sometimes it can be shyness or they just don't know how to communicate
She is obviously into you... if you have never shown any interested and she keeps on calling, well, she is not making any effort to hide her feelings. If there were no others girls at the party, she came for you ( not the games.) Her exuse was terrible, she obviously just wanted to come with you... all of the signs are there, just decide if you like her like that, and if not you better tell her soon.
ok well she does see more that's the problem she wanted to come SEE YOU. that's why she came but she didn't want to admit it because then she wuld be very embarressed. That's why she made that up and at first when you told her she culd come she turned it down at first because she didn't want to sound really needy and wanting to be with you. She wanted to try to sound as normal as she could. And yes she deffinently has a thing for you.
she definitely likes you. calling you like 3x a day. and asked if anyone wanted anything so she could get in good with your buddies? You really need to never flirt with her please don't lead her on. she probably only told you she was going to the gym to see if you would magically show up there. Don't try to be all friendsy but don't be rude either. maybe in order to be actual friends you need to calmly tell her you don't feel the same way as you think she feels lol
maybe she just got nervous, I've done stupid stuff like that. I'm confused though as if you like her, or not. If you don't like her let her know. If you do like her, let her know. I don't call people and talk to them for an hour unless I genuinely like them or really want to talk to them.
I think she likes you. Why else would she ask you where you were, & then call an hour later to see if you were with your friend? Maybe she's trying to make it obvious to you without making it too obvious. Also if she didn't she probably wouldn't hesitate before leaving, unless she's really really shy or not interested. (That was the case for me. - the whole shy thing. Last year, my crush walked me home & I got so nervous, that I ran off. But I made sure to thank him for doing walking me so he wouldn't take it the wrong way lol - hopefully he didn't...)
She's into you... and a little desperate. If you're into her, take her out, but if you just see her as a friend, then be a good friend and set the boundaries, talk it out, and let her know where you're at, but by no means lead her on. Do the right thing.
she sounds like she really likes you or it can be that she has no friends and that's why she's at the gym and wasting her time traveling and going home...just to kill time! but comon you said she was attractive!