I have 0 actual friends that are girls because I never ever try and talk to girls.
I never put any effort into chasing women like most other guys do. Like literally 0 effort. The first girl I made out with had to literally throw herself at me because I sat there ignoring her staring at me for 5 minutes (she was literally right next to me watching me play Halo). Don't get me wrong, I love the fairer sex, but I just never make any effort whatsoever to talk to ya'll.
I've tried to think of reasons why I don't try at all and so far I've come to the conclusion that I'm either:
A. Ashamed of needing a woman to be happy
B. Too scared at the thought of rejection (even though I've never been rejected)
C. Need to lose my virginity so I know what I'm missing
D. Probably all the above and more
A lot of girls give me signs that they want me to go over and talk to them but I usually just ignore all these obvious signs. I guess its mostly because I don't know what to say and I don't want to come off as desperate so I just never try. They probably think I'm just too stupid to notice these signs or just not interested.
Also, I seem to always make up reasons as to why I don't like a girl that is into me. If a girl makes it clear that she wants me it's like I suddenly lose interest.
And so I don't see myself ever really having a girlfriend because of these reasons.
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