Girls should never wear sweatpants in public? why not?

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right now I'm wearing sweatpants and a t-shirt

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I'm about to head out to the library for some studies, then I'm meeting one of my girls for coffee, grabbing a burger with a guy friend and then going with him to catch a free improv show our school's theatre group is putting on.

it's very cold and rainy outside.

why do so many guys find this type of outfit unfit for public, even with the bad weather and my low key activities?

Rockinroller · Accepted Answer

It isn't that you don't look attractive, or that it's just completely unacceptable. It just shows a lack of effort, like you just don't care (and not in a good way).

What do you think about guys who go out unshaven? Guys with thin hair who let it grow out too long? Guys who drive around in unwashed cars?

Which is more attractive to you:

A man who always wears nice jeans, a button down shirt, short hair, and nice leather shoes

A guy who usually wears a tee shirt, jeans, and nikes?

You don't even know what they look like, but I'm betting that you'd rather meet Mr. Leather shoes. It's not that one is more attractive than the other, but you just know immediately that one keeps himself to a much higher standard than the other. Probably more interesting, tries harder, possibly makes more money...the implications go on and on.

So, all that wearing sweatpants means is that you don't care. Even on a rainy day, it just sends a message that your standards aren't that high. It almost flies in the face of other people, like "Here I am, I don't care what you think, I'll wear my pajamas in public. I dress for me!" I don't mean that I've literally ever been that offended by it, because I haven't ever even given it that much thought, and I doubt that most guys have. But that's just how it sort of comes across.

For the record, I do find them sexy when I see them. It reminds me of girls in high school. But it also makes me think that that is where the girl is maturity-wise, and I wouldn't date a girl who wore them in public. Just an underlying feeling that they wouldn't give much effort.

PsychedelicZebra · Accepted Answer

Oh, I don't think many guys find that outfit unfit for public, at least for those activities you describe.

It's not really that sweat pants are a turn-off, per se, but more that they are not a turn-on. Think of them as neutral.

Of course men like skin and stuff that shows of curves, sweat pants tend to hide your toned legs. So they don't really do much for a guy's imagination, but I don't think you should stop wearing them or anything, if that's your style. As long as you don't wear them to less casual events.

Well from the pic at least it looks like those pants show off your butt, still, sweatpants tend to be neutral/boring.

I mean, do you like guys who wear sweatpants?

oOsweet~o~nessOo · Accepted Answer

I think most guys find that look more approachable. When I go out dresses up pretty nice, maybe heels and a tight shirt, guys look at me and comment, but that's about it. For some odd reason, when I throw on a hoodie or sweats, I end up with guys asking me for my number all day long. I think sweats just make a girl look more normal and confident because girl's too concerned with their appearance would never go out in sweats and a t.

Plus, your more comfortable so it puts you in a better mood.

Sweats are nice for certain days, but I think there should be a balance between sweats and jeans. You don't want to come off as being insecure because every day you wear sweats and t's which will send that message.

springdragonfly · Accepted Answer

i don't know why but I have to agree with some of the other posts. a lot of girls I see trying to pull this look come off seeming trashy or sloppy. there are very, very few who can manage to make it look good.

i think is because context really matters. though I find my pjs comfy and I wear sweats to the gym, I don't think I would want to go out in them. I sleep naked in the summer when it gets really hot. I would never think to go outside like that even if it is comfortable and I would feel less warm. everything in its place.

Livvypuent · Accepted Answer

Hey for all the guys who give a sh*t about this...they are just being jackwipes...I mean who the f*** cares about something so dumb? Wear whatever the f*** you want...and who cares what it is...I mean geezus, you should see some of the sh*t I wear...I straight up kick in tye dye...Grateful Dead shirts...with holes all over them and I go out in public...sh*t I think I pull it off! Plus they are sort of hot in my opinion...awesome sense of f***ing style...I pwn

hotopic29 · Accepted Answer

because sweatpants for one make girls look sloppy and unorganized. It also caused girls to look bigger than they are. Guys like when girls are composed and take care of themselves. If you're gonna go casual then try a cute sweatshirt  with skinny jeans and uggs with a purse. appearance is very important

stevo_dltnJRB · Answer

its not about your activities first off... its about Guys, in general.. not thinking outside the body figure, and outside their own little sex driven mind set. They look at a girl in a t-shirt and sweats and say, "lazy" "slob" "she doesn't look good today it must be that time." Its shallow thinking. if these guys, that are around today, and no offense to the guys in here that I know will read this. but its just shallow. its the tight jeans, cleavage that most look for. instead of looking at a girl and saying wow... even though your wearing sweats, or if your wearing your sundays best your still hot. its jsut a mind set that some guys have and some guys dont. Its all about who has the tightest butt. or biggest bust line. its just shallow.

islands7 · Answer

It's OK to post links on this site without spaces.

Sorry to hear you have uneducated outfit police on your campus; my campus in summer used to allow swimsuits. Cold & rainy makes your outfit a must, your truncated photo proves it is not only stylish but sexy (as you proved in comment below). Perhaps your next post might give more details about the police and what makes their opinions impressive enough to send you here with such a question ...

You posted what looks sexy on a guy.

What I would add to those sexy sweatpants would be this sexy top - but it might be too cold for this?

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AllDay · Answer

I don't really care if the girl wears sweatpants or not

It just becomes a turn off when it becomes a everyday thing.

I wake up and put on jeans and a button down/ T shirt

I'm sure girls cando that too

Everyone deserves a chill day just don't let it become an everyday thing

I mean if a guy doesn't like you because you're wearing sweatpants then should you reply be worrying about him? Who cares?!

If you want to wear sweats everyday then by all means do it but then guys won't check you out as much

Slugworth99 · Answer

You wear what you want to wear. Be comfortable. If somebody is put off by this, who cares? If a guy doesn't like you in sweatpants, kick him to the curb and move on.

By the way, I read your bio. You are a very attractive young lady who is to be applauded for your convictions to wait on sex until marriage. I know that it isn't easy in today's world. Stick to it. You will find a special guy some day, and you both will be happy to have waited.

Phoenix52 · Answer

When I see girls out in sweatpants I just think they got out of bed and didn't feel like changing into better attire.

But honestly, it shouldn't matter. Wear what you wanna wear. It's not like you have to look good 24/7.

Now, if you wore sweatpants to an interview for a professional job, then you're screwing yourself over.

sikoo31 · Answer

i think its stupid how a girl can't wear whatever she's comfortable in cause other girls call her "trashy"

those girls calling them that are only insecure, so insecure that if they don't go the extra mile on their looks, they don't feel good enough, and that's simply ignorant.

congrats for wearing them, I admire that.

htowngeorge · Answer

LOL I think this is to funny. Click on other articles on GAG there's not many views or answers at all, if any. But just let a gorgeous girl post a question about an article on clothing and BAM so many visitors and answers (ya I'm guilty to), it's like trying to read the New York Times :)))

themastaplan · Answer

what guys are you talkinga bout...i LOVE, repeat LOVE girls who wear bum clothes...not like bum ont eh street but bum around clothes...it kinda puts me at ease and they look so comfy to just cuddle up with lol...dont let these douche bags tell you different...be yourself and be happy...cuz those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind :):)

hALLDAY · Answer

Looks good to me. You should wear whatever feels comfortable, but I have to say its like a "hit or miss" subject. The right pair on a girl who can still make it look like she made an effort to dress and put on make up looks great. Otherwise, most guys will assume you just got out of bed, haven't showered..ect.

honeyv · Answer

i love sweatpants. short or long they're practical and great for usual things. I personally wear them almost anytime and I don't really care about others thoughts.as long as I don't care what others wear, I'll put anything I want on me. I mean, if I had a bad day/problems/stress and simply don't feel like dressing up nobody cares about me or my problems. like live your life without stressing on little things.

BlackEyes · Answer

No! Don't wear sweatpants! Eww.

Wear corduroys, their warm.

To be comfy, try leggings and a tunic.

But don't wear sweatpants.

Come on! Don't be lazy.

You should never wear something you'd wear to bed out of the house.

No flip flops, no sweat pants.

It doesn't even have to take more effort.

Flats take as much time to put on as flip flops.

Same if you trade your sweatpants for leggings or pants.

justagirl42 · Answer

I think it depends on how they're worn whether guys will like them.  if they are those cute butt sweat pants from like abercrombie or hollister with a cute tshirt or tank top I can't imagine there's a guy who wouldn't like those LOL but if they're the "damn I started my period and this is the most comfortable thing I could find to wear cause I feel like crap" jogging pants then yeah lol I can't imagine many guys who are gonna think those are flattering.

Little-Hippie · Answer

You're wearing sweatpants. It's Monday. You can't sit with us.

sassyxoxo · Answer

I wouldn't wear baggy sweatpants too often in public, I didn't look at the picture but I'm sure you look just fine for those plans. I could wear yoga pants all day everyday and they are very flattering to most butts and don't look sloppy. It's baggy sweatpants that look sloppy and unfit for public.

Cailleach · Answer

I love wearing sweat pants be it in public or at home. Frankly, I don't give sh*t what I wear in public, as long as I like it and feel comfortable. Why would I care over peoples opinions? Its not like I'm ever going to see them again and if I do, so what?

yagurlnira768 · Answer

Im a girl...i wear them at home or wehn I work out...i don't leave the house with them unless its to the gym, because they are too sloppy looking...at school people wear them...but only to school not to the mall...jeans are more all-arounded or the cotton leggings with boots for more comfy feel.

(I know I'm late lol)

Anonymous · Answer

first of all, who cares. really.

second, if you like them, wear them.

third, a picture? I think we all know what sweatpants look like. you just wanted to show off your body, and that was made obvious when you asked some guy on here, "my butt doesn't look sexy in them?"

Blobb · Answer

Yeah I don't get it either. Trackpants are just so comfy! Thankfully I have a general philosophy of "f*** the haters".

Also trackpants can make you look pretty sexy. I wouldn't say it's trashy, that's just bull.

Anonymous · Answer

You have a nice ass and tight pants like those and spandex are sexy... The only time I find sweat pants unattractive on a girl is if they are the baggy grey ones and they have some sh*tty shirt on makes guys think slob, docent care about appearance, etc. like has already been posted.

suavaye · Answer

i wouldn't care if yu wore tht unless we were going out to a movie or dinner. I wear what I feel comfortable in all the time so my girl should too. its just a matter of knowing when to dress and when to pj

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