Guys do you prefer active girls or passive girls?

[Veraxy]

Here is the situation , there is a boy I just met,and he is JUST MY TYPE! But he is not very outgoing I think(or maybe he is just playing cool idk). So ,one with this personality would prefer active girls(which I am!)or passive girls?

And is it worth to make some changes for a guy?

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Um, a girl who's both? >.> being non-stop active is exhausting, but sitting around all the time is boring too.

Or wait, I'm confused, you mean in active/passive with a relationship or active/passive in how they live their life like if they go out hiking a lot compared to someone who likes to sit and veg out.

If you mean relationship-wise, we guys like someone who is active in pursuing a relationship, not just sitting there waiting for us to make ALL the movies, but we definitely do want to do our part (well most of us), so no need to take all the steps. It'll just spoil the guy anyways and possibly lead him to using you even if he does genuinely like you and care for you.

If you mean the life bit, well what I said at first. In the middle. I enjoy hiking, sailing, soccer, football, etc (even if people can't tell I enjoy being active :P) but I'm also a HUGE gamer and programming and scifi/fantasy/whatnot geeky nerd kinda dood as well who enjoys just relaxing on the couch playing said games or sitting and programming or reading or whatever. So ya, that's my little bit on this.

[Veraxy]

Wow thx for wring all that for me;)

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Hah np. As long as it helped

[WeaponZero]

Personally I prefer girls who are go-getters, active types. But don't change who you are to get a guy because there will always be guys searching for just the kind you are, and it's very important to only do what comes naturally to you in your search for a guy. Never change yourself and never lie about who you are.

[Veraxy]

Very true! Nothing ends good when I pretend to be someone else,and thx to let me know there are many guys like you who like active girlsXD

[Anonymous]

You're talking about your demeanor, being active and outgoing or passive and shy... So you can't change that and why would you want to for a guy? You'll come off as fake and you can't keep that facade up forever.

Guys generally prefer someone in the middle, not a bitch but not a doormat. So just be you, honestly. Don't change yourself for a guy because you'll be setting yourself up for failure.

If this guy you like is playing it cool or not outgoing, either way he isn't making a move. Try talking to him and letting him know you're interested. Then leave the rest up to him.

[Veraxy]

Wow you seems really experienced;) and really make sense! I can't change my characteristic,it would kill me! Thank you very much!

[Opinion Owner]

It's great to hear that you took to heart what I said. You're very welcome! :)

[malekoniky]

Definitely active if she understands that I don't have to be able to keep up and that she cannot expect that much of me as she does every day.

[Veraxy]

Won't that easy to get tired of an too active girl ?

[malekoniky]

Yes! But if a guy understand that and she understand that he needs times alone because otherwise his brain would explode ... then it is great! and he can love her like crazy!

[Veraxy]

Haha,I get it. Guys need to spend time with video games too, can't always be girlfriend XD

[Quadrophonic84]

All guys like being pursued (as do all women) but most likely he'll play it even cooler if you do pursue him. No harm in making it clear you're interested, once.

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Active.