Dude, this isn't a lame question at all. I know exactly how you feel! Many other guys do as well. When a guy lets himself go or starts to look like crap, you run the risk of the chick leaving you for another guy or cheating. You're a "bum" to people and risk getting chastised. When a girl gains 100 to 200 lbs, wears PJs 24/7, quits her job, becomes a lazy bum etc. All of a sudden it's the "guys fault" and the woman can't do wrong.
It's DEFINITELY a double standard. My last ex quit her job the second we entered into a relationship and wanted to move in with me. She started doing the PJ routine and got lazy etc. I wouldn't let her move in so everything was my fault right? So she started cheating. You can't win. I just pat myself on the back for being strong enough to tell her no. She was pretty dang attractive and was very charismatic.
Moral of the story... Get out while you can if you notice these traits. Let me tell you from experience, it gets worse, not better. It's happened to me half a dozen times. The chick flips a switch on me one day and I never get her back. So I'm forced to break it off.
But when she dresses up for everyone but you, I feel like she has lost respect for you. At least that is how I felt when it happened to me.
bitch is sucking d*** behind your back bro... internet bitches just be lookin out for other sluts. You shouldent have to take that kind of crap. I say you tell that property of yours how to dress if not snuff that bitch and move on to the next girl. Life is too short to be with bitch that don't listen
it could be because she feels comfortable around ou and doesn't feel the need to "impress" you.
If it bothers you say something, but say it nicely. You sound almost accusatory in your question, is there something more to it, for you I mean.
My partner had a problem that I wore the same track bottoms when he used to see me at weekends only.
I explained that skirts, heels and push-up bra's are really f***ing uncomfortable and that when I'm home I like to be in something loose. When you get dressed-up and made up cosmetically it's like putting on a mask and being a different person. at times it's just so that I can cope beter with the world, some girls just feel naked without going the whole hog.
If you'd prefer to see her plastered in make up and killer heels occasionally tell her, she'd probably oblige but feel that she's not good enough for you in her natural state.
9 times out of 10 I used to do that for when going out so that people didn't look at me and say "poor bastard look what he's gotta put up with"...
I'm with Minxxe... she's probably just really comfortable around you and feels like she doesn't have to dress up. She probably doesn't realize that it bothers you.
Talk to her about it nicely. Try to come off more on the positive than the negative when you bring it up though. Like instead of asking "why don't you ever dress up around me?" That would just make her feel bad about it. Bring it up in a way that will make her WANT to do it for you. You could try saying something like "You look so cute when you get all dressed up, I'd love it if you would do it more often for me."
She probably wants to be herself around you and know that she can dress in sweats and you'll still love her.
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i think its coincidence
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