Do guys often follow the girl they like home? or like try to stalk her innocently?

[Anonymous]

i know this guy I've busted him following me home from his car several times, don't freak out he's not a creep or anything he's my age and we have school together, I've had a crush on him for a while now, and I thought he liked me too but I hinted that we should grab a bite to eat before class and stuff and he made excuses he's busy, he always stares at me and I won't list them all but he gives off the signs he has feelings for me too...ive just been ignoring him because I don't know why he's playing hot and cold games breaking my heart. he followed me home from school and spotted me in my neighborhood and stuff, why would a guy do this? if he truly likes me why won't he come face to face and talk to me ask me out when we have class together?

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+1 y

i see where you guys are coming from...i guess you are all right he is a weirdo and if he turned down hanging out with me because 'hes busy' but then has time to follow me from his car then he must be crazy after all.


gonna ignore and stay away. thanks all

[Littletad]

Following you in his car... that's very creepy. No matter your feelings for him, I hope you take that into consideration. If he's willing to do something that stupid, he is probably an obsessive person. That's not a very charming trait, trust me.

[DRDdan]

No sane guy would pass up on an invite like that if he actually liked you. And as for the creepy stalking... you should probably avoid the guy. I don't think you can stalk people innocently.

[timetowaste]

If a guy is following behind you in his car, it's creepy.. no matter what the intent. He might not seem like a creep, but that kind of action is creepy.

[Asker]

i know him personally though we were friends in school until the attraction stuff kicked in ha ha he's decent even shy sometimes I just want him to ask me out already! >.< and don't understand if he likes me or not

[ThickRick]

Baby can't you see... YOU BELONG TO ME!

[hellothere]

agreed he sounds like a freak

[kat007]

a guy done this to me too but I don't know what his game is it s very frustrating