She likes me, right?

[Anonymous]

Girls please help me interprete these signs; glances, touching, see you soons, and permissions to kiss

Info: I've only been on 2 dates but we seem to hit it off. She laughs at what I say. She responds or mimicks my movements. And she always says see you soon, as I do to her, and how she looks forwad to meeting me again. And when I saw her last I touched her shoulder as a gesture of goodbye, and she touched mine as well and our arms/hands crossed as we left (a little reluctantly).

Also, she said no 1 really asked her to call or drop a message for getting home safe. And she did thank me for being a gentleman.

So she seems to like me right? Or rather she does NOT dislike me since she is open to going out again with me.

Qn1: Do you women say things like "see you soon," and "look forward to seeing you" etc just to be polite? I am inclined not to read too much into things.

Qn 2: I am not sure whether to ask permission to kiss a woman or not (soldier that I am) or to just gesture my head/face towards her. It would be a first time, so how does one know whether its right or not?

(*info: I have kissed girls before after asking permission, and it's usually returned with a smile and a "you may," but I am wondering if it is secretly considered corny?)

Qn 3: When I want to ask her out to do something sporty like kayak or even for a picnic, she said she's afraid of getting all sweaty...but why would that be a big deal wonder?

Thanks a lot ladies.

[prityricky1]

You seem to have some basic indicators of interest, & I would bet that she probably does like you. You have gone on 2 dates with her, so the fact that she is spending intimate time with you & wants to do so again speaks volumes in regard to her likely high interest in you. However, you should NEVER ask for a kiss under no circumstances! Always be a gentleman, but realize that woman are attracted to men whom are confident, & asking a woman for permission to kiss her is the antithesis of confident ( it is weak & corny). Do you think James Dean, James Bond, or the " Fonz" would ask a woman for a kiss?...Hell no! They would wait for that moment when the time was right & MAKE THAT MOVE!

Now if you are unsure if she would be receptive to a kiss. Here are a few things you can do:

1. Run your fingers through her hair while looking into her eyes. If she lets you do that, licks her lips and or holds your gaze then she wants a kiss.

2. Never ask for a kiss, but if you want to say something verbally. Tell her while looking into her eyes," I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now" & see how she responds. If she smiles, licks her lips or shows any receptiveness. Then that's your cue to make that move.

[7gnat]

women sometimes go a little slower than men so maybe the see you soon comment is OK but maybe it means ehh I am not that into you. kissing her is the way to see. And yes it is corny to ask a girl if she wants to kiss. by slowly attempting to kiss her you will know if she wants to kiss

[purpleprincess]

If she's happy to touch you and be touched that shows that she is comfortable with you within her intimate space. See you later, would mean she does want to see you again, copying, or rather mirroring someone's body language is a classic unconscious gesture that men and women do when they like someone, whether it be through interest or attraction,. So far I'd say she likes you. I don't think you need to ask permission to kiss her, just in the moment when you're both relaxed move closer into her personal space, if she automatically tilts her head into the kissing position, which all women do when attracted, you can lean in a kiss her, just go gently with the first kiss, guys make the mistake sometimes of giving full on snogs and that can be a little intimidating during a first kiss. As far as sporty activities, she may not be a sporty kind of girl or she maybe worried that after kayaking she won't look her best for you and smell like a river, not good when your trying to impress a guy! Lol! x

[AmberChick]

1. Polite or they may like you.

2. You can always face her and look into her eyes. Maybe cup her chin with your hand, or brush the hair from your face. If she wants to kiss you, she will look up at you and you should be able to tell. If you're not sure, just go in for the kiss. If she pulls away, try again later. If she says I don't want to kiss you let's just be friends, well that's what that is.

3. lol...

[AndItWasAllYellow]

I think she likes you :)

If she was just being polite she would have chose different words.

It depends on the girl, I think most girls would rather you just do it when it feels natural in the moment.

I think its another sign she likes you, she doesn't want you to see her when she's all sweaty and active, she wants to look pretty for you. Either that or she just isn't a big fan of the outdoors.

[smexiliciousss]

Qn1: That is simply an act of courtesy, people mostly don't think anything when they say it

Qn2: You don't ask permission(its corny no offense), you just KNOW when it's right, and you go in for the kill

Qn3: She doesn't want you to see her when she's "unattractive and sweaty"

She definitely likes you though.