A single parents child WILL ALWAYS come FIRST... you can surely understand and appreciate this?
If I were you I'd slow down, seriously. One thing you've got to realize is that being a parent is life's biggest commitment, you can always divorce your wife/husband, your kid will always be your kid. You want a committed relationship, she's already got one with her girl.
Her going out with friends... first of all take it as a sign, maybe a hint to calm down on the Romeo behavior , she'd be spending all her spare time with you if she wanted to be serious at this time. Secondly she's a young woman who's missed out on many social events due to her being a parent, she deserves enjoyment, time to be herself instead of a mum.
Finally... as much as you want her to yourself, as nice and gentlemanly as you'd like to treat her... mother and daughter are a package, you want her, you want a family life, a big ask!?!? She knows this, it'll be playing on her mind, she needs to be sure before she commits
Play it cool mate ;]
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This reminds me of the Brad Paisley song "He Didn't Have To Be". She probably wants you to get comfortable around her daughter and vice versa. Also to see how you will interact with her should you become her stepfather. Now if she were to bring friends along, I would be a bit concerned, but bringing her daughter along, that's a different story. I don't think you have to be worried.
My dear it is an honour for a man to be introduced to a womans child.. You should be one hundred percent delighted she wants to include you in her kids life...
I think you should definately embrass it and she will be so appreciative and will reward you...
I think she will see what a good guy you are and want to spend more time with you alone as well as with her daughter...
Give it a go... I don't think you'll regret it... if you really like her!
maybe she wants her daughter to get used to you and be comfortable around you. :) she has to put her daughter first and heself second. Next week or whatever invite her to something kiddy and ask her to bring her daughter. Maybe she'll say that she actually just wants to spend time alone with you :D
It sounds like she wants her daughter to meet you and to get to know you. It also sounds like she's taking you pretty seriously. Usually moms won't allow their kid to meet someone they're dating in the early stages because they don't wan the kid to get attached.
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WTF? she is really looking for a daddy for that baby so bad!.
i have no problems with single mothers but the ones who try and push their kid off on a guy they hardly know are very stupid and desperate. you could be an abuser, child molester or hate kids, but this chick isn't even thinking about all that because she's so desperate to bring her daughter around you. I would approach women like this WITH CAUTION because they usually are not very smart. smart single mothers wait a very long time before they bring their boyfriend around their children.I'd be weary of any mother who's bringing her daughter on a date with someone she isn't in a serious relationship with. I mean, I would assume it means she's comfortable with you, but I'd think you'd wanna be more careful about who you introduce to your child.
Of course, I don't have kids, so I have no idea.It sounds like she's getting very serious. If you aren't of that mind, then it's time to break it off. Frankly, I'd be touched and flattered.
get out while you can bro, she sounds horrible to me
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