I used to feel this way. In high school it's like nobody would date me. I never dressed to impress, so I can kinda understand why. I was also one of the guys and never the girl in the group that was dateable or popular or anything like that. I actually dated this guy that I kinda had a thing for. I mean, I thought he was kinda funny, but he was a complete nerd. He treated so badly it was unbelievable. I thought he would have felt lucky to have a girl even look at him, but he didn't see it that way at all. I was just there. I know that if he does get another girl they'll never be as good looking as me. I mean, I know I'm not the best looking person, but I'm definitely not ugly. Anyways, after high school tons of guys suddenly wanted to date me and I didn't know what to do with all the attention. This clique mentality that high school makes us experience completely wore off. Now I'm dating a wonderful guy that is totally sexy and I'm the only one he thinks about. (: I'm no longer desperate now that people don't have such a cliquey mind-set.
Not really only felt like that once after I got rejected from someone I crushed on for a long time but that was for like 3 days at the most I don't dwell on these things they are urgent to me I know they will happen
yup. And I'm afraid I'm going to rush into the next relationship because of it... been single for 6 months. What's holding me back is I want something serious and I don't want to fall for the wrong guy.
sometimes yeah. I try so hard it feels like and I always get so close but then nothing ever happens...usually the guy loses interest. I'm just tired of being single and I am ready for something real and long term. I mean I've never had a boyfriend before so I really want this to happen. But I just feel like I'm stuck on the sandbar in the ocean.
And then I'm also afraid because I want it so much that once I get it I'm afraid if something happens I will be hurt terribly.
I think I need to change my attitude and read up on the benefits of being single. lol.
I'm not desperate like OMG crazy I do wish I had a bf... I've been single for a year now.. I'm realizing that it's okay if people are single because there's no one to hold you back and with a boyfriend/girlfriend they are always checking what you do and that suck lol well I'm happy alone