Honestly from experience, if your "gut" is telling you something, then listen to it. When you kiss someone you "love" it should be encumbered with deep passion, love, excitement, etc. Being taken care of means nothing unless the feeling is mutual. At 19 years of age you have a lot to experience in life. I am not discrediting the relationship the two of you have, as that is for you to decide. But honestly ask yourself this. Do you really need strangers to tell you what to do if you are posting on a site about not having "sparks" when kissing your BF? I suggest you access the situation and make a decision. Just look at the pros and cons. If one out weighs the other, than go with whichever is greater.
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Thts the problem with promise rings and the "forever thing." When I got my girl a promise ring I told her tht it was to symbolize tht I promise to be faithful, love her, yata yata but specifially not get married. Because we're young, and anything can happen. We both love each other, but even 2 years into it now I'm not sure if she's exactly the one for me. marriage is a big deal and not something to just jump into. So its completely normal to be iffy on the whole thing at the 1 year mark. Don't look to far into the future with it all, if you enjoy it in the now and are happy in the now, then go with it. If not, your young still.
Do you know what, you are only 19, and he is only 20, which is still fairly young, and the likelyhood is that since he gave you this promise ring, you've started to wonder if being together forever is really what you want.
Sure you may be really into this guy, but without sounding harsh, you could also find that in a few years, may be months, that you've grown out of him.
If you are happy with how things are then stay with him and see how far you get, if you can feel in your gut that this is never going to be a 'forever' thing, then you have to end it. Gut feelings are usually spot on, your body can sense things before you've even realized it yourself.
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