My boyfriend has become very mean all of a sudden?

[phillygirl1210]

My boyfriend was my perfect prince charming, he was very sweet and nice and I was to him as well. But all of a sudden he snaps at me and gets rough with me a lot. (he likes wrestling with me for some reason). He yells at me when he's mad at me...fine, but he yells at me when he's mad at something or someone else too. He says he doesn't want me to leave him and he loves me but I don't know how to get him to be nicer like he use to be again.

[Surfinforlife]

Has he all the sudden gotten puffy in the face, redish skin tone, back and shoulder acne, shrinkage of the testes, and suddenly larger muscles?

If that's all noticed then he's probably shooting steroids in his ass. He wouldn't be all this aggressive unless he had a sudden upper in testosterone levels...steroids do that to ya.

[AltTech]

Sounds like his true personality is coming out. An abusive person can only contain it for so long.

[Anonymous]

He's abusive. All abusive people start off as being very caring, loving and charming. My ex was the greatest sweet talker you could ever meet but eventually...the biggest jerk ever. I have to tell you to..trust your guts, dear :)

[phillygirl1210]

your probably right... thank you so much cause I thought maybe I was just jumping to conclusions

[Opinion Owner]

I wish you the best :)

[Vasillilaw]

Tell him he better check himself before he wrecks himself and if he doesn't then you're leaving the next time he snaps!

[justjumpit4]

I'd get out of there..it's just not looking too hopeful.

[Equinoxe]

For how long you known each other?

[phillygirl1210]

we have known each other 9 months but have been dating 6 months

[Equinoxe]

Tell him, that you won't leave him, but also tell him that you don't like it when he yells at ya, that real men dosen't yell. Other then that, if he does it again, you need to dump him fast and hard, becouse once he starts with his bullsh*t, you are down for a ride that won't bring any happyness at all.

[phillygirl1210]

thanks a lot for your answer