seriously why? Because they're easy? I don't get it! guys always go for the slutty fake girls but not for the real girls the pretty ones who have respect for themselves and know what they want?
Why do guys always go for the trashy, skanky girls?
I used to date this kind of girl exclusively. Here's why:
Blinded by lust. These girls are hot, and show off their assets very well. Very easy to become infatuated, have your head up in the clouds, and not pay attention to any red flags. Of course, they know this.
Fake seems real. They adapt their personalities to fit into every situation as it suits them. You can't tell what is fake or real. They can act nice just like that.
Confident and aggressive. They come on strong, and don't hold anything back. It's very easy to have sex with them right away - because they'll initiate it most of the time.
Sexual manipulation. The tool they use to get men to do their bidding. Manipulation and deception in general is very common. They have it down.
Hero mentality. Wanting to save them of their troubles; viewing them as afraid, misunderstood, etc. Making up lots of excuses for everything they do wrong, and who they are.
Listening to what they claim - instead of paying attention to who they are. Believing them to be victims. They all claim to be nice girls finishing last. Not wanting to be another jerk, we act nice - not realizing they're jerks themselves.
Challenge aspect. Wanting to be the one to change them. Wanting what you can't have.
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'Always' is never a good word to use. BOYS may go for these types of girls, but men do not.
It seems like you had hope in a guy and you've been let down.
Besides, these are the types of guys that you don't want looking for you, right?
A gentlewoman deserves a gentleman, and vice versa.
You'll find that guy you long for, you simply have to love yourself and hope that you'll find each other.
You are completely right. Guys go to the trashy girls because they are easy. They aren't man enough to go for a respectable girl. Trashy girls are easier to get into bed than other girls. They are ditzy and easy to figure out.
Guys go for these girls, but they do not stay with them. If you really want a deep answer to this question read the book, "why men marry bitches." This book changed my entire relationship with men. It explains how women who try to be the stereotypical dream woman or what men want always end up alone.
Trust me. Guys are not spending quality time with those trashy girls. They are not taking those trashy girls home to meet their parents. They are not doing anything with those girls except thinking about how they are going to get them naked. And that's it.
If you feel like your surrounded by boys that only go for trashy girls, do yourself a favor and ditch the little boys and start hanging out with men. A guy who will go for a easy score over a good girl doesn't have to balls to take the risk of getting turned down.
Bottom line, those guys are p******. Trust me, there are real men who aren't cowards out there. Try hanging out with different people.
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obviously not all guy go for that type of girls, majority do and that majority of guys are lazy, do not feel like putting work talking to girls that are not like that, not ready for a relationship and want to have fun and quick fun, cause face it its much easier to talk to a player b.c. he is fun and outgoing and doesn't give a sh*t, than to a nice guy who plans your dates and does cute stuff making you feel special etc. I don't want to be in a relationship or hurt guys feelings, I do what guys do I'll talk to a guy who is well "player" I have zero expectations of having him around for long term, so probably how guys think... however, older guys get this changes, after age say 27 a guy is so busy with his work, and career and life no time to play around they look for quality. so basically know what YOU want and that's what YOU will get. IF I want a nice guy I go for a nice guy, if I want just fun I go for someone who has the same mentality. its a pretty simple concept
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Because many guys your age tend to think with the wrong head lol (no offense guys but it's true however, notice I said many and not all). The slutty, trashy girls are quicker to put out than girls like you. DO NOT become skanky just to increase the number of suitors that you attract. The guys that the skanky girls get are NOT the guys you want to attract, trust me on that. Boys will chase the skanks, men look for classy ladies, so stay classy and when the time is right, the right man will find you.
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Booty call. They are cheap, easy and reliable source of getting sex. But don't get me wrong, they're not a good relationship material.
Besides, it's way far from being "always".
You see, not many guys are that happy to spend truckload of time hanging out with a girl, take care of her, satisfy her, entertain her etc just to get that boner in his pants fixed. So they use those girls to satisfy their sexual lust, that's all. But don't worry, they're just a cheap f*ck material, nothing much. Nobody dates those girls for long. - 314 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
What is your concern about a guy going for a "slutty fake" girl because they are easy? Are you upset that "real" girls are missing out on opportunities to be treated poorly by a guy who only wants sex from you, nothing more?
I guess I would be more on board with this rant if it made sense. I personally would have no interest in getting the type of attention a girl gets by being easy, as you put it. I don't even fault guys for wanting sex. We want what we want and if a girl wants to just jump into bed with a horny guy, well that is her right to do so. It is my right to choose what works for me and only spend time with guys who fit the bill. Same with you. So why not leave the guys who are looking for casual sex to get it where they can? Enjoy the attention of guys who have other things on their mind. -
Guys like both types of girls...listen...I'm in my early 40's, been married twice with girlfriends in between. Most men believe the IDEAL woman is believe it or not..."a lady in the street and a freak in the bed"...yes from the song...its true. I am married now and my wife is a complete lady outside our bedroom...but in the bedroom...she treats me to the sluttiest, freakiest behavior that I could ever imagine...doing things that only dirty girls could think of...but guess what...she does it for me as so I don't stray to real sluts on the street, and because she loves me. Be slutty for him in the bedroom..dress slutty for him when it just you and him going out..there are many many things you can do...and also be a classy lady treated with respect...
Basically..most will always go for a slutty type woman...its bread into us. -
Well obviously, they're better at sex which makes them better human beings. Actually you got a lot on it, men that are attractive, nice, and smart tend to do this because they want to help and they think that it'll work. Other times, it's just for the sex that doesn't take any work to get. Men go through this until they grow out of it or they learn that there are girls that are worth much more than the casual sex and the fake. Love is a war, and you got fight to win it. Good luck if you're going against those slutty girls, B.
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God I am tired of these questions
"Why do guys go for ugly girls instead of the pretty ones? It pisses me off!"
"Why do guys only care about looks? It pisses me off!"
"Why do guys like bitches? It pisses me off!"
"Why do guys want virgins? It pisses me off!"
It all comes down to:
WHY DO GUYS GO FOR ANY GIRL OTHER THAN ME? IT PISSES ME OFF! - 622 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
Wildcat is right in a way, but the turth is that "trashy" girls are just easier and less of a headache to deal with. Trashy girls don't play games, they don't play hard to get, they don't make you jealous, they don't ignore your calls on purpose. They are pretty forward and go for what they like, they dont't wait until the "prince in the white horse" comes to their rescue, they just go for what they like and they go with the flow. Something that "good girls" should definetely have.
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Why do girls always go for douche bags who treat them like crap and then complain that all guys are jerks and why do girls always put all guys into one category?
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Because they know tht they can't get into the good girl pants! Don't worry about those jerks,just be yourself and keep respecting yourself.I've many slutty friends who got many attention from guys but well who f***ing care tho,they keep changing boyfriend because they can't find the real guy for themselves after been dumped by those guys.Anyway thts their body and its their right...Im sure you will find the guy tht really respect yourself as much as you do...have a nice day;)
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not all guys are like that...
on the other hand I see a lot of beautiful, nice, intelligent, perfect girls go with absolute jerks...and absolutely ignore guys like me...
I guess nice guys who really are honest and faithful seem to be too boring...and so the circle of everlasting pain begins. -
Because the "good girls" like you are always bitching about other women. Being a bitch is a very unattractive quality.
I'd rather date someone who is 'skanky' than someone who is as judgmental as you. -
what do you mean by "trashy " girl. just because she is enjoying a lot of male attention and does not behave in a so called "respectable" manner it means she is not a good person?...or she is evil and should not be liked by guys? I don't think so. and even if guys are after them for sex then fine... its their problem...what are all this complaints for?
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I prefer skanky girls over "nice girls". Skanky girls are less complicated. Unlike "nice girls" that have a long list of requirements a guy must possess to be datable, skank girls give you an opportunity as long as they find you attractive. Moreover, when skank girls are ready to settle down, they are not judgmental over a guy's past. On the other hand, when "nice girls" want to settle down, they are very judgmental to a guy's past. So, in conclusion skank girls are nicer than "nice girls".
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Why do girls always make false generalizations about guys on here?
i avoid trashy girls at all costs.. I'm not like that - 731 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
The real issue here is that you're judging all guys by the guys who want a quick lay and nothing more. Guys who want a quick lay and that's it will of course go for the girl who will give it up with no objections or no questions asked. But not the guys who want relationships.
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Not all guys go for trashy/skanky girls even though the majority of girls now a days are. I would rather find a ride or die girl, but are hard to find. I think the girls who don't know what they want and are still slutty and fake are still young even if they are 25.
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That's almost like asking why do girls like jerks? Its because we see that bad girl image and are impressed by the looks. But once we go out and get to know this person a little better, we realize that we don't want to be with that person because they are very liable to cheat. Hope this helps.
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Things are not always what they seem to be , you can't put girls or guys in a category , people have many sides in their personality and there are "pretty ones who have respect for themselves and know what they want" who only have respect for them self's and not so much for you , even if you respect and try to be the best that you would possibly be able to be , just to have her smile while looking at you and have her appreciation .
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Yeah, it really sucks for us virgins who love our virginity and want to save it for the right guy because most guys would leave us or cheat on us for some other girl just because she would suck his d*** and spread her legs.
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Cause slutty girls offer things "classy" girls don't. First off sluts are easy, so there's none of the stupid games that most girls like to play. Second, sluts are fun cause you don't feel the need to actually talk or connect with them. Finally let's be really honest sluts are great cause usually know what they're doing in the sack, the same cannot be said of nice girls.
The... uhhh I guess moral (or questionable moral) of this response is basically sluts are more fun. Too many "nice" girls are yawn inducingly boring, there's a reason Tinder is so popular and here's a hint it's not because of the prudes who "aren't there for a hookup."
Hope this helps. Now go out there and be less boring. -
I'm not so sure they do. The girl I had the biggest crush on throughout most of my high school years was a vadectorian, star athlete, and is now in medical school. Neither trashy nor skanky.
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