Girls why aren't you looking out for your own...
Here's what I have to say about this. I went to a christian high school and we had some girls transfer in from public schools in the area throughout my 4 years there. Every time one would transfer in all the girls would just lash into her behind her back calling her trashy and just building up these completely ridiculous and false theories about them without having even said a word to them. I would always make friends with them. At first that gave me a bad reputation with the other girls in school because they thought I was just a guy out to get some. After awhile though they noticed that I wasn't doing anything like that with any of the "trashy" girls. So one day a couple of girls just flat out asked me in my study hall period why it was that all the trashy girls were friends with me when I wasn't trying to do anything with any of them beyond just friendship. I stopped and thought about for a few days. I realized that I didn't really know what it was that was attracting me to these girls. Why I made an extra effort to gain their friendship. As I was talking to one on the phone about some stuff she went into how grateful she was to have me in her life. How she was vulnerable when she came to our school and very insecure. I realized at that moment that the reason I was drawn towards them was evolutionary. You'd be amazed how insecure and vulnerable most of those girls that dress that way and put off that vibe are. As males it is hardwired into our brains to protect our female counterparts. As apes I imagine these girls would be ones that struggled to gather food, find proper shelter, and manage to provide security and protection for themselves and their children. So yes there are guys out there who just want to use girls to a certain end. Please don't forget though that not all of us are like that. There are some of us that see vulnerability and insecurity and want to fix it and protect the person rather than take advantage of those things.
(being a man) Let me answer this one for you. First off, someone who actually has "morals and values" wouldn't be claiming that another person lacks morals and values simply because of the way they look or dress. You're asking men to rise above to trap of superficial judgements, while you are doing that exact same thing by judging the girls we are into based on their looks. So, stop being a hypocrite. And, stop being retarded and in denial. Woman who claim that men want chicks who look "slutty" are most often ugly women who can't dress sexual provocative because they are not at all sexually appealing, so hey delude themselves into percieving attractive (possibly scantily clad) women as "slutty". The truth is, you're a slut too, you just don't have the body to dress like one. You self-proclaimed "classy" chicks are most often just mostly ugly, but when guys show you interest, you cough up the vag even quicker than the "skanks". Trust me, I've been around the block with both of these demographics. In cases where men do go for the skantily clans girls who ARE actually ugly (which, yes, does happen quite often), have you not noticed that those men are usually pretty ugly themselves? So, is that even a situation anyone is interested in understanding? Well, for ugly chicks, yes, it is, because those ugly guys are the only ones hey can get. So here's your answer ugly chicks: your ugly men are going after more naked ugly chicks than less naked ugly chicks because more nakedness excites our desire to fornicate. It's not rocket science. But don't get it twisted, you less naked girls are classy, you're just unfashionable and poor sex strategists. Quit whining, save up for rhinoplasty, get Invisalign, hit the gym, buy some sexy clothes that make you feel good about yourself as a sexual being, ignore what ugly guys are doing, and learn how to dance.
The men who desire them don't truly appreciate women at all and have very poor self esteem. Some men truly feel they don't deserve better than their one night stand chick so they treat sweet, classy girls as if they're "too boring", not enough of a "challenge" and not worth their time. They treat good girls like garbage and bad girls like Queens.
Some men just really think backwards on these things. Why do you think Eminem married the girl with the drug issues who slept with all his friends? He didn't have the self esteem to know that he deserved better.
The men who think trashy "bad girls" are better are afraid of real love and subconsciously they really want to be alone because they think that's what they deserve. Yet they're afraid to be alone so they choose just anybody over the good girl they really want to be with. Because believe me fellas, when you keep picking these no good women over the good ones, the only challenge will be that you'll end up alone or diseased and that will really be a bore. Not wise to devalue pure gold, now is it?
Being skinny does not mean your a skank - I'm sure that's not what you meant though.
Men go for that type simply because their an easy hookup.. get in and get out type of thing..
Classy girls respect themselves, their values and others, it takes more time and we're obviously not interested in that, at all.
Immature guys just don't want to spend the time to build a relationship with us, therefore going for total whores. Anyways - I consider myself classy, so classy girls FTW.
Most guys under the age of 30 have little or no self control over their sex drives. They're shallow, superficial, underserving pigs who just want to go out and f*ck as many girls as they can. They will take advantage of a slutty girl because she will let them but then they want to date a girl who's as clean and pure as can be. total hypocrites!
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You ("you" as in classy girls) ARE attractive. In my eyes, much more attractive than trashy girls. The only thing is, it might be more obvious if a guy is checking out a trashy girl since he could be looking at some, well, obvious spots. But trust me, guys (or at least I) check out classy girls, even if it's just looking at their faces and noticing that they look really cute.
Morals and values are great, but they don't factor in to hotness. Hotness is based on looks, which skanky sluts, by their very nature, tend have the edge in. Doesn't mean that I'd like to have a relationship with one over a more conservative girl, though.
guys that like trashy girls look at them and say "easy pickings". They don't have to invest into a relationship, and are not tied down.
I generally say that what you wear reflects who you are... so the girls that are like that, in my opinion lack self-confidence, and try to dress to compensate for that. hope that helps =P. but in all seriousness guys who are looking for relationships don't look at those kinda girls.
Cuz I'm sure you in high school and guys just wana fwk mostly at high school and a lot are d***s. But there's lots of guys who like classy girls a lot more you will see once your out of high school there will be less guys that like trampy girls because eventually everyone wants to be with a person who has a good personality and is nice and somone you would wana spend your life with
Because the door's wide open. I don't get the attraction besides the obvious. Girls like that look like they're covered in a thick layer of bed fluids to me. Just thank them for keeping all the horny men preoccupied while you look for one that matters.
And yes As previously stated, once you're in the workforce, you'll be make three times as much as them and have a guy who actually cares about you for who you are.
well I would like a classy girl the thing is they don't really exist anymore and skanky girls are like used as a blow up doll they are come buckets and guys like cumming
Being a British Gentleman, I of course prefer a lady of class and fine etiquette. Upon doing up my tie I then discover that I'm from Outer London, and the only class you find their is frowned upon as a traitor to the Crown... Meh, I'll still go with classy, at least they can actually speak English D:
You think this because you are in high school; everyone is superficial there. Once you hit college or the job force, you'll see that "washed up road whores" aren't all the rage anymore.
Are you mad woman?! There's nothing hotter than a classy girl!
umm since when is being skinny associated with being slutty and trashy? I'm skinny and classy thank you very much. You speak of having morals yet you're on here talking trash about girls who choose to have a different lifestyle than you...not so classy hun. Guys go after hot girls, some of those girls are sluts and others are not. I don't think it matters much.
Slutty girls are more appealing because the way they dress and look, but If I had a choice of either to hit up a slutty girl or a classy girl I would choose the classy girl because she has values and she respects her self
what they check out and what they go after are two different things. the girls you mentioned get checked out because they put things on display to be checked out. that's all guys do though.
I would rather date a classy girl. I think guys like slutty girls because they think they have a better chance for sex.
Guys are visual. Also at your age guys are like that times 100.
Well I tried having a relationship with a girl who I really honestly cared for, and had my heart ripped out and stomped on so pardon me if I feel the desire the dip my wick without useless bullsh*t from females.
I think you are mistaking normal guys with morons with no values
Because sometimes they are actually physically more attractive? That's not to say that there are no hot classy girls.
Yes, it is very classy to post pictures of yourself saying "I have curves". You know guys will automatically start checking you out when you say that, right? :P
Sluts appeal to the eye more, but I would rather date a classy girl.
Because a lot of these so called, self proclaimed classy decent women that dress nice, who bash guys are FAKE & irritating to be with. And are BORING!
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