Is it ever too late to tell someone how you feel?

[Anonymous]

Guys, how would you react if you liked a girl and tried getting her but she denied you then, lets just say 8th months later she tells you she has feelings for you?

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+1 y

well more like a year later ..

[gotc147]

I would've had to have been in love with her.

I recently had this happen with a girl, if she came back sometime next year for example, considering I haven't found someone else, it would depend on what she said was the reason and such.

I'd probably give her a second chance but the first incident of her old antics and it's over again, and there won't be a third chance.

[Lovelesspassion]

Depends on a few things..

1. How she denied me

2. If we stayed friends

3. If I've dated anyone else

But most likly id ask why..

Kinda like asking why now and not then...

Oh and if she's been dating other guys.. Id wonder if I was just her second choice

[bel42]

A year after? That's a really long time. Most probably the guy no longer has feelings for you.

[Asker]

it sucks

[Lovelesspassion]

I have to disagree I still like several girls.. And its been longer then that..

[bel42]

lol ok.

[wilbur12]

I believe that its never too late. you never know what may happen. Feelings do change with time however you must learn to start acknowledging your feelings a litter quicker because you never know what you may lose by not simply talking about your feelings

[sudher9025]

I HAD FACE THIS CONDITION WITH A GIRL, I LIKED HER SOO MUCH, I EVEN LOVE HERX BUT SHE REJECTED ME. I EVEN TRIED TO TALK TO HER & EXPRESS HER HOW MUCH I LOVE HER. LATER I EDDICTED TO DRINK, BEING AWAY FROM MY PARENTS THEY DONT KNOW ALL THESE THINGS. LATER MY FRIENDS MANGED TO BRING ME BACK TO MY PREVIOUS STATE. THIS HAPPEND 2 YEARS BACK, EVEN TODAY I REMEMBER HER, ONE THING IS DEFINATE I CANT FORGET HER FOR THE REDT OF MY LIFE, EVEN I THOUGHT I FORGER HER, I CAN NOT

[kevlar]

This has happened to me and I just ran. Just can't go back. Move on.

[Anonymous]

No, it's never to late to tell someone how you feel.

It might be too late to expect them to feel the same way. But that's no excuse to keep the feelings internalised.

You should always be honest, and tell the person how you feel.

[Anonymous]

As long as you didn't turn him down for another guy or were rude to him it's never too late. If so don't even bother because you'll just embarrass yourself

[NerdInDenial]

You might as well try, but expect him to reject you at first.

[Asker]

eh, I feel like he hates me

[Lovelesspassion]

Why do you think that?

[Asker]

we have mutual friends and he talks to everyone but me

[Anonymous]

I'd question why now? why did you wait so long

[-StillWater-]

Of course it is.