Girls; how can I stop being oblivious?

[Anonymous]

I am so tired of being oblivious when girls throw hints at me. Like in a store today, two girls were following me, but I didn't realize it until I had already walked out of the store.because my friend told me what was going on after the fact. I made eye contact and everything, but I didn't understand what their deal was.

If I can get some advice on what to do in these type of situations maybe I can react differently when the next opportunity arises

How can I catch on to these hints of interest and how do I approach the situation.like what should I say? I hate using cheesy pick up lines.I just don't wanna seem like a complete wierdo, cause I'm not.

[mmgood313]

In this case at the store, your behavior was fine whereas theirs was off. It's not your responsibility to make a move if they're stalking you.

If someone's smiling at you and maintaining a good amount of eye contact, you can be sure she probably is interested (in one of these situations). So go ahead and say 'hi'. That at least breaks the ice. You can also ask a question about some kind of grocery they're holding, like, "Hey, is that on sale this week?" Kind of corny but it could work towards making conversation at least.

[a-nn-a]

Girls will usually show interest by smiling or eye contact, so intoduce yourself, make some small talk about something like what school they go to or job they have, hobbies etc. and see where it goes.hope that helps :)