Marriage material vs slut ?

[Anonymous]

Often I hear guys put girls into two categories: girls to have fun with and girls to marry. Why these stupid assumptions?

You can have fun with a classy girl. The only difference is that you have to put a bit of effort in knowing a such girl.

I guess I'm often considered this ''marriage material'' which annoys the hell out of me. I find it a bit insulting as well ... I mean if you think about it you are having the fun with a ho and keeping girls like me for what to raise kids? clean the house? make you a nice sandwich? O_o

P.S I'm by no means ugly or anything, just a normal girl who is I guess not considered a slut.I'm not a prude either ... I guess I have to convert myself to a slut to have some fun ...

stupid guys logic messing with my life -_-

[Anonymous]

Lol Please don't convert to slut I did that and it just got me a bunch of partners (interestingly same level of respect though) but a bunch of one night stands I have to keep track of plus it's hard to tell your future husband about your past (better not to say anything imo). You know what you don't even want those guys who are sleeping with sluts they are man whores anyways and if the relationship is only sex what is the fun in that?

Just keep on doing what you're doing, you will find a guy who you can have everything with sex included and relationship that is the best imo... =D

[Asker]

But life gets boring like this :D because guys are so stupid that I'm being left with no option other than becoming a ''slut''. It's like communicating with aliens ... you have to dress a certain way for them to get the message that you are not asexual :S othewise they are afraid bla bla or they suddenly get ethical think about moral stuff ... wanna marry you in 20 years -_-

[Opinion Owner]

haha I know but trust me it's a whole lot better than becoming the slut because then you have to worry about pregnancy and stds...

[diegoD]

thats dumb. why does question asker have to do something to appeal to men? if you feel like having fun do it, if you dont dont do it, you will still find the guy you can have everything with

[4getmenot1996]

Yeah I have been considered a slut sense 6th grade...Just because I have big boobs and a nice ass! The thing is I'm A VIRGIN so I'm not sure were that came from but still I get what you are saying...Most of my guy friends tell me all the time there are to kinds of girls "fine dine and wine or there are girls you just stick your cork and screw"...I find it really offensive!

[Asker]

Their simplistic view on how girls are is exactly what is bothering me ... :S

[Yukey]

LMAO

Sounds more like

Slut vs Marriage material = Temporary disposable fun vs I'll love and stay with you even if your grumpy

So I guess it depends on both what the girl makes herself and the guy wants her for :/

[Flux17]

Most guys decide this based on the attitude the girl they are talking about gives. It's not really meant as an insult, but it's just a guy thing. Kinda like how girls like to go to the bathroom in groups or whatever.

[BeerME]

When you say "hear," do you mean "read about in cosmo?"

[Asker]

no you silly! Mi don't read no cosmo ... from my guy friends, cousins, all the douchebags in my family, friends, what I personally see on a daily basis.

im from europe, maybe things are a bit different here -_-

[BeerME]

Hmm,well I won't speculate about differences in cultural perceptions of women, but I feel like this a rather simplistic model of attraction and, while I maintain that men are simple, we are a little bit more nuanced than that.

[CoffinWolf]

you can meet a woman who is totally hot and sexy but she can also be a fine person to marry. if marrying is your thing.