Could be embarassment. Her friends I'm sure are not bad people, but it's easier to find faults with someone else's grinding's suggestiveness then with your own and the person you go out with. Could be she would've preferred space in an entirely different place- either away from her friends' gazes or away from the dance floor. If you're only interested in doing the naughty dancing, you haven't progressed from the initial flirt stage, meaning nothing important has developed between your meeting and now. I totally see how you think that was space- really! But it's tricky not making the wrong impression on a girl's girlfriends.
Problem: Part of her thinks you really might only want to dance dirty. You didn't stick around = you weren't enjoying her company without physical contact.
Solution: Go do something with her and her friends (not with even number boys, girls. One other guy is probably best unless there are a lot of girls.) This works best because it subconsciously reassures her friends and her that you don't need to be alone, just you two, everyone partnered off, to have fun with her. And it insinuates you approve of her friends as people. When at another party, hang around with them, and your bros, don't get caught up in keeping them seperate. She's not opposed to dancing with you, either, but go slow, work your way up to the part of the night that you dance together. You don't steal your girlfriend away from her father asking her to dance, you make polite chit chat. Female bonds of friendship are just as dangerous as a father's approval with provocation.
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