What are some signs that a girl is leading you on?

[BloodMerchant]

I'm not really being specific here, so it's more of a general idea.

It does hurt to think when a girl that I'm interested in just suddenly doesn't feel interested in me. I can't tell how a girl is leading me on, so I'm honestly confused here- especially if I didn't ask a girl out or anything yet.

[Anonymous]

lots of signs:

when you two are alone she appears to be your best friend: listening to you, telling you everything that's going on in her life, poking you, holding your hand, touching you, hugging you, making you feel 'that kind of way'- all inside. but when she's around others she hardly ever notices you're around and acts like some other person.

she makes you do a lot of favors for her: drive her to meet a male friend, shopping or hang out with some of her friends and then she appears to hardly enjoy or take notice of your presence...stuff like that. its not that the guy expects a favor in return but just the opportunity to be closer and have some fun. does she realise that?

joking around with her friends about you behind your back. stuff like ''poor guy...look its him again''. then talking to you as if you're her darling.

over-flirting in front of others as if to impress others not you.

generally speaking you know if a girl leads you on when she has different personalities around you and others. ie behavior changes. if another guy comes her way and she really liked him as in relationship material I am sure she'd act another way.

it works the other way too. guys lead on girls a lot (players?). same methods different applications.

if she doesn't feel the way you feel about her and she does things to make your feelings deeper without expecting you to like her in another way, you'd either be lead on or just a considered good 'friend'.

be careful being a 'friend' because sometimes when she does end up with another guy its harder to let her go and you won't be the same 'friend' to her anymore.

sorry for the long post.

girls/guys, if this doesn't make sense plz correct me or add to it. I based this on a very embarrassing and sad experience I had in college. my intentions aren't meant to stereotype anybody just share an experience and opinion.

[Lostwithouther]

I disagree about the being around others part. If she likes you but doesn't want anyone to know she will be like that. Plus her time with you is when she shows her true feelings not when she is around others. I speak from experience. Feelings always change she may change the over flirting thing maybe just to get you jealous and maybe in fact to lead the other guys on as to make you think she likes them when she likes you.

[Atomizer]

If she's a tease.

She'll flirt, she'll act as if she'll get physical with you -- there's a vibe you can often get from a girl when she wants to fool around -- but when you make a move she retreats, or says she's not ready to get physical.

[lorelai87]

Usually when a girl is leading a guy on, she will flirt a lot, then two minutes later, be flirting with someone else. Also, the girl won't respond back to your text messages, phone calls, or facebook messages or wall posts. If a girl is truly interested in a guy, she will makes time (no matter how "busy" she says she is), to text you back or calls you. Also, if you ask if she is taken or not, and she doesn't say yes or no. She just avoids the question altogether. Hope that helped.

[sweetynxtdoor818]

a girl will only lead you on if she is emotionally taken. and quite frankly the girl may not even know if she is taken or not.

she might look at you and think there is potential but she might not want to make a big deal out of it because you might let down her expectations.

signs that she is leading you on: she doesn't pick up most of your calls... again.. I think this is more of a feeling based question.

what do you feel ? that's what it is.

[Marauder]

That is a very intriguing, yet enigmatic answer. Please elaborate some more, because that sounds exactly like the way the last girl I was seeing acted. I totally fell for her because I thought she felt the same way. Then, POOF!! Bye-bye. I know now that she was just having some fun, and that's OK. But, wow! Man did she have me on one for a while there.

[sweetynxtdoor818]

Yea it happens to most men. You can say it is unavoidable ! Because us girls have things figured out in our head.. like what can we use this man for ? but I'm not saying all girls use men.

Most girls just want a good guy that is not a jerk. I think you are asking me why the players of the game (women) are so complex, honestly.. I don't know, they all want different things.

you need to focus on finding the right girl, not an angel per sai... be persistant !

[BubblesOfTheNight]

How do you know if you aren't dealing with a shy girl who faked confidence for a long time but stopped...because she is naturally shy and really can't handle acting the way she used to? And truly was having fun but genuinely liked you as well?

[hannnam]

yu'lll know if she's leading yu on, when she's f***ing around with yu, nahmsayen? but when she's like blahblahblahilloveyu, then next thing yu know she's w another guy. &spend time w the girl before yu ask her out, so yu rly know ws wsp wid her.

[mzsfamous1]

That just shows that the girl wants you know that she is not interested. She does not want to hurt your feelings or tell you she is not interested. She maybe wanted to spare your feelings by suddenly not seemings interested

[Tannerson]

FYI, that doesn't spare anyone's feelings, it enfuriates us. If you can say that you genuinely care about me but aren't attracted to me I will be fine. If you don't genuinely care about me and aren't attracted to me, that could hurt honestly, but I'll get over it. If you tell me exactly what I did that made you lose attraction that's even better. Maybe I can work on it. If it's not something I can work on then at least I have perspective.

[delusionist]

Ask her out. If she says yes and it goes quite well well I guess its just the thing she has been waiting for. If she turns you down or the date probably goes horrible for silly reasons then you will know. So ask her out you never know what can happen- see what happens. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Very simple... eye contact... if her eyes are on you.. then you'll know. But don't take this to your advantage, it could be very dangerous. Good luck.

[confused1081]

Well, what's making you think the girl's not interested?