My girlfriend of 15 months has a crush on another guy. Should I dump her?

Zimbo113
Well, my girlfriend and I had some relationship issues a few months back, mainly with her being so stressed with her life she took it out on the relationship and we ended up temporarily splitting. Once we got back together, however it was great. We were better than we ever were before. My girlfriend got really dependent on me in the start of the relationship, which caused her to lose her friends. So, lately there was this guy who kept texting her. I didn't like him, and his texts were obvious that he had a thing for her. My girlfriend kept claiming it was just a friend, and when I asked her to text him "ttyl, with my boyfriend." she refused. So later on, he confessed his feelings for her. (He's short, I am 6"5') So I instantly but in and intimidated him. She told me she never liked him and she just wanted some friends. So I called him over when I was with her so we could just talk, and when he came over I expressed that she and I have a great relationship and he has no part of it, and if he tries it won't end well. I ask my girlfriend to say something and she refuses.

So he leaves, and I look at her and say, "Glad that is over and done with. Its not like you liked the guy or anything." And she looks at me, unable to say anything. Turns out she liked him for a month, since our little break up, and she told him she liked him on Sunday. She had invited him over the day previously because she wanted to tell him it never would have worked and she loves me, but I have to take that with a grain of salt. I storm out, threatening to break up with her. She told me she loves me, she realized how much of an idiot she had been and she wants things to work again, but I don't know. I feel like a huge idiot for talking that guy down when I had no idea what was happening.
My girlfriend of 15 months has a crush on another guy. Should I dump her?
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