when considering a girl for dating...how much does weight influence your decision?
How much does weight matter when dating?
Weight is(was) a major factor for me, but isn't a deal breaker. He is how I (personally) see it:
Anorexic- pretty gross, I wouldn't want to consider one to marry, and would go for her after all the curvy girls were taken. It shows a lack of self-respect and intelligence really, because anorexia is dangerous and not a very smart thing to do, no matter what your problems in life may be. Also uncommon so I don't know too much about this.
Skinny/athletic- HOT. automatic dating material, even if they are bitchy. Guys are willing to put up with a lot if you have a nice body. Also the sex will very likely be the best out of any other category. If you are not in this category, you should strive to be.
Curvy- This is probably the majority of all girls. I am attracted to this type and see them the same as skinny/athletic girls, but I would choose them after the skinny girls were all taken.
Fat- Not very appealing, it shows lack of respect for yourself, and very likely the sex won't be very good. I would however consider dating a fat girl if she had good looks, a good sex drive, was very sweet, and not a complete loser. If this just happens to be you, don't be insulted, just consider gaining more self-control and confidence, hit up the gym a couple times a week and eat better. Plus you will probably die sooner, why would a guy want that?
anyways, lol. I hope this helps
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It's really not fair, but the truth is that body type is very important for most guys. I think a lot of us just can't be attracted to someone who is overweight, no matter what other qualities she might have. And there are some guys who are willing to overlook a lot of bad qualities in a girl if she is reasonably slim. Again, it's not right and it's not fair, but I think that is the reality.
The good thing is, is that this is something most people have at least some control over. And as long you lose weight in a healthy way, it can be a positive change that you are making for yourself, not for anyone else. Losing even a little weight will increase your attractiveness.
Anyway, if its something you are interested in, you should talk to a doctor about it (seriously). Your doctor can help you figure out what a healthy weight is for you and how best to do it.
when a girl doesn't take care of her own weight, how is she supposed to take care of another person in a relationship. As long as a girl is not morbidly obese... it should be good
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if she weighs more then me. that's a definite no no. I like a girl who takes care of herself
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Depending on the guy, it ranges from 0%-90% of the attraction factor.
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It's not how much she weighs, but how she rocks her weight.
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fat matters not weight
fat matters alot, if a girl isn't in good shape I'm not intrested - 588 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
it's all about proportion!
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if she weighed more than me, it would be a turnoff
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over 300lbs.
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