A female friend that lives a few hours away invited me to to come and stay with her for a week. The first day everything was fine, but she ended up getting really drunk and then getting into my bed when I decided I was going to sleep, nothing happened though.
The next morning I never brought up what happened as I didn't see anything wrong with what happened. she then freaked out and asked me to leave, she's also blocked me on skype, windows live and removed me from Facebook.
So what caused her to hate me all of a sudden? Is she angry because she doesn't think I like her?
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Wow a true gentleman, kudos to you for being a real man and not taking advantage of her. Trouble is, this is exactly what she wanted you to do. I promise. She might have even gotten drunk to give her the courage to do what she did. I would have had to do the same thing. Yes she prob feels like you don't like her. I think you could rectify the situation by calling, leaving a voice mail, or texting her with the message that you really want her ( I assume you do) and that you didn't want to take advantage o f the situation. Tell her youd rather you both be sober to be able to enjoy it more. If she doesn't respond then Id say she's def. not worrth your time. there are many girls out there that would die to have a man as honorable as you. :)
Girls can be really emotional and sometimes without logic. I would send her a text message that says something like 'if you change your mind about me anytime soon; call me'. That way she can't be upset if at some point in the future you move on if she doesn't contact you. After you have sent that message don't contact her again unless she contacts you. If you want to wait a while for her to return contact, then do that. At some point if she doesn't contact you, move on. That would be my advice anyway. ^^
Yeah, she probably does feel like you rejected her. That being said, she sounds like she's a bit over-sensitive, which may be a red flag. You wouldn't want a girl who flips out at you every time you don't say/do the exact "right thing", would you? But maybe she's not always like that, but just got really upset because she really likes you. You'd know which it is based on how well you know her. I'd say you should say "Sorry if I did anything to make you angry, but I didn't mean to. Please tell me why you're upset with me so we can work it out". Or something like that. If she can't respond to that and is never willing to get over how things went, then she's a nut, anyway and it's better you found out now.
first of all, I can't thank you enough for being a true man. wish there were more guys out there like you. then to answer your question, she's probably embarrassed about how she acted, or she actually does like you back and secretly wanted you to say yes in the moment even though she doesn't realize that might hurt even more. good luck with everything!
Wow all I can say is the girl need to control her drinking, I think she thinks you took advantage of her. Cause I never heard a girl freaked out for thinking she had sex with a guy she invited over before. Or maybe she just feels dumb cause she knows she was drunk and don't remember what she did so she don't want to face you
she's either angry or upset that you rejected her and then appeared off with her the next morning; or embarrased by how she behaved that night; or isn't interested in you now she thinks you're only offering friendship
She might not remember what happened and think you took advantage of her. Give her some time and then send her a text or email explaining that nothing happened and you wouldn't take advantage of her if she's drunk. There must be a reason she flipped and it's probably just in her mind.
She is probably angry that you didn't take her right then and there. Try to talk with her and let her know that you really like her and would love to do anything with/to her. It was just that she was drunk and you felt kinda awkward about doing anything with her. Let her know that you just wanted to respect her. Hopefully she comes to and realizes that you are a good guy.
Tell her how you feel, be honest about it. Tell her how hard it was to resist her but you didn't want to take advantage of the fact that she was drunk because you respect her. She obviously feels rejected and awkward about how to act around you right now. Communication is key.