Girls: What makes a guy handsome?

Question

The question pretty much says it all. :PIs it how he wears his hear or how much muscle he has? etc.I'm pretty interested in what you girls will say :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1. Confidence + Intelligence (not just "acting" confident because you're oblivious to the fact that you have no value in society or a woman's life, but because you "are" confident because you're completely aware of the value you have to offer to society and to a woman).

2. Looks (There are some things beyond a guy's control: face, height, and masculine features. Yeah, those are sexy, but lack of them isn't a deal-breaker. The real deal-breaker are lack of things that "are" within a guy's control: weight, fitness, muscles. If you're not willing to put in the effort to look hot and sexy, why are you expecting a woman to put in the same effort to look hot and sexy for you?)

3. Appearance (Basically, take care of yourself: brush your teeth, shower, get a haircut, clip your nails, and don't look like a bum - it's not cute. Also, dress up. A guy that wears nice shoes, has a nice watch, and has nice jeans and a shirt doesn't make me feel embarrassed to be seen in public with him.)

4. Money (I'm not going to be cute and call it status or power: it's money. Think of money like aspects of your looks that are within your control. Sure, your parents may or may not be rich, but what have "you" done with your life? Are you majoring in art history, or going on to be a lawyer or doctor? Are you perfectly happy with "just getting by, and doing the least amount of work you can," or do you strive for perfection? If a girl is busting her @ss to be desirable for a guy, she wants a guy that's busing his @ss to be desirable to a girl. I could care less what level your shadow priest is on WoW, or how good you are in Call of Duty, or how drunk you got, or how cool the party you went to was. I do care about what house you live in, what car you drive, how successful your children will likely be, and what lifestyle your family will enjoy. As an analogy, think about it to how you would like to find a girl you can enjoy a great sex life with. Sure, you can convince yourself to desire and live with less. You could do that. But why do that if you don't have to? You have one life to live, why not enjoy all the amazing sex you can? And there are a lot of girls out there willing to be like that, for the right guy. But that guy better be able to make her life just as enjoyable, and what she wants is NOT in the bedroom.)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It`s not a secret that girls like guys with muscles(they make us feel safe)..it`s by instinct to like a guy that you know it can protect u..that`s why girls like tall muscle guys:D

BUT that doesn`t mean that we don`t find really really attractive a guy that doesn`t have muscles but it`s proportionate, has a nice smile and knows to say a joke:D

U can`t make all girls fall when they see you( no guy can) but if you want girls to find you good looking you NEED to have a good hygiene(look nice and healthy) and wear nice clothes that make you look good (maybe add some cool classes or a bracelet smt what will make the outfit look cool) and also perfume(but not too much).When you walk show that you are proud of who you are (head up&back straight).

now about the personality just be yourself,smile and say a few jokes..that should work.

PS: maybe is just me but I find crazy attractive a guy that knows what he wants from life or a one who has a plan for the future is more attractive then a buy with muscles:D

Definition of handsome:

good hygiene+ nice clothes+ a cute smile+ confidence + some brains [ :)) ]= HANDSOME!

anony84 · Accepted Answer

hmmm this is a hard one to answer because the man I loved the most (my recent ex) looks nothing like the men I'm usually attracted to. He's not bad looking at all but just not my usual type but I was head over heels in love with him.

But if I was just going by my usual taste, I would say good teeth, good skin, still has all his hair (I don't care much how it is styled as long as it's clean, i.e. not oily, greasy, dandruffy or full of product).

Tall or at least taller than me when I'm wearing heels so minimum 5'10 or 5'11.

I don't like them too muscular because I find that a bit gross so I would say fit with muscles but not bodybuilder type. 6 pack is not necessary but no beer belly please.

Broad shoulders

i don't mind body hair as long as it's in the usual places, i.e. no hair on the back.

no beard or mustache

overall face is just generally appealing. It's hard to describe though because different people can be facially attractive in different ways.

A nice deep warm voice. This isn't necessarily a physical handsomeness trait but for me, it increases the level of attractiveness.

MrReal · Accepted Answer

1 Tall

2 Dark black hair combed back or to the side

3 Square(ish) face

4 Facial hair 5 o'clock shadow ( link ) Van Dyke/ Short boxed beard/ The Zappa/ The Winnfield/ Handlebar

I believe being handsome requires you to first and foremost look masculine, be a bit intimidating, and have elegance.

SweetnSober · Accepted Answer

Common trend seems to be confidence...no one questions confidence. Too bad I'm shy

rfanm · Answer

When I think handsome, the guy has a "Prince Charming" kind of feel to him. He has a nice smile, good skin, usually the hair is short-ish, decent body and good posture. Basically he looks like a kind person and he's someone (based on appearances) who you can bring home to your parents or something. People who aren't overtly sexy/hot, and have classic good looks.

Examples:

Jon Hamm link

Pierce Brosnan link

P.S. I usually reserve this word for older men, just because I don't see many young guys who really fit my description of "handsome." But Joseph Gordon Levitt ( link ) would be an example of a younger handsome guy.

kdizzleforizzle91 · Answer

I'll be completely honest. There are certain hairstyles and amounts of muscle that are more attractive than others in general. But I must also say that it completely depends on the person in question. Most guys look okay with at lest some amount of visible muscle, but as far as hair style/color or eye color... it depends on what works for the individual. One example could be that not all guys or girls look good with tattoos or certain piercings.

I've thought a lot about this, and I've never come up with one single thing that all guys I've liked have had in common. Each guy had his own certain things that work for him and make him attractive, so I can't really give a definitive list. Even though I couldn't list anything specific, I hope this helped at least a little bit.

musicbrain5 · Answer

A handsome guy to me is someone who cares about me, has a great personality, is intelligent, has good hygiene, and dresses well (like none of that baggy pants below your waist sh*t). Ideally, he also has a good physique (some muscles, a flat stomach, maybe some abs), nice clean hair that's relatively short, passionate about something, good in bed and open to new ideas. I also love a guy with a smooth, deep voice - one that I could listen to all day long.

Luckily for me, I believe I've found a guy who matches those qualities :)

Anonymous · Answer

he's hot because he's confident and he has a cuute hair, and photoshop body.. less muscle is better hot because he's cute hot because.. confident, great body, handsome , he knows he's charming and that type makes me feel like I'm the luckiest girl on earth because he's with me plus you need great sense of humor and be a man, take control.

claireincali · Answer

hair: short (not Justin Bieber! please no! but brad pitt usually has nice hairstyles/

face: anything minorly attractive is good for me. if I like the personality, then I don't really care/

hygiene is a big one for me. don't want a smelly guy (:

muscle-wise, I just want him to be bigger than me. don't want a wimp lol.

personality is a big one. I fall for different types: the funny one, the sighty arrogant one, the study-but-have-some-fun one.

Izzy_21 · Answer

Physically I think there are a lot of factors you have no influence on, like height, face, masculine features and overall body structure. However over some you do and a good haircut and good way to dress can make up for a lot. Of course some muscle is also attractive, just not too much. Personally I think facial hair is ridiculously hot on most men.

personality wise: humor,confidence,intelligence and manners

Anonymous · Answer

Attractive facial features. Nice teeth. No facial flaws. Looks manly and like he can take care of things. Handsome isn't about body, handsome is similar to calling a woman pretty, it means attractive but not necessarily sexual, though handsome can also be sexually attractive, that depends on the body, personality and demeanor

HurpDeDurp · Answer

Looks (Eyebrows, nose, eyes. Atleast, for me.), personality. Intelligence. No weird longer-then-mine type hair. :| And no Justin Bieber hair swoop. Tall.

Anonymous · Answer

a sense of humor is a must! but then know when to be serious sometimes. someone who's really nice and charming is attractive to me too :)

i usually really like medium hair. not long but not too short either... then again the guy I have a huge crush on has short spiky hair so it really makes no difference. also it'll help a lot if the guy was a little taller than I am.

livi23 · Answer

there are lots of things! like you said, how he wears his hair, how much muscle, but mainly it's his confidence. without confidence girls will pass right over you. there is also his sense of humor and how he wears his clothes. c:

sineadocl · Answer

it doesn't matter what they look like at the end of the day. unless you only want to see them for one night kind of thing. to me a handsome guy is kind, funny, talkative, loyal and thoughtful. I def have a type in looks though, but they come 2nd to me :) x

MariHaze · Answer

Cheekbones. I love high cheekbones on a guy! And dimples too! For a guy to be attractive to me, he definitely needs good hygiene and a sarcastic humor like mine.  I prefer them taller than me although having someone the same height wouldn't be too bad.  A lean fit, don't really like jacked guys or obese ones.  I really like long hair on a guy, not so long that he can put it up in a ponytail (I find that weird) but not too short.  If he dressed good too, that would be a huge plus.  But the most attractive thing for me is his personality.  I'd rather have the always smiling unattractive guy over the never smiling attractive one. :)

Kladdpapper · Answer

Technically it's about symmetry and proportions. A symmetric and proportionate body and face is always pleasant. :)

However for -me-, a handsome guy is a man with class, who have matured and it shows. He have a smile that tells you he is happy and honest just like the way he carries himself. He have not forgotten to brush his teeth or clean the pizza from his beard XD For me a handsome guy is more about their manners than how they look :) I love handsome men.

PoeticNinja · Answer

His sense of humor and his voice..  The way they smile at you, a guy in a suit is handsome and how he looks after sex.

Anonymous · Answer

It's like this, guys don't have to be handsome. They have to have this appearance and air around them that makes them attractive. Mostly girls first go for the outside but if you want a girl with a little brains and beauty it is not about the outside but what's within. As I can say from you photo, you are a nice guy but try to be a little bit more flirty and smile a little bit more. You'll be fine! :-D

haylee_ann · Answer

His smile is super important so is the way he treats others and the way he dressed and he needs nice hair. Are you asking got handsome or hot? Because there's a difference

nicolmo1 · Answer

Physically: masculine features, nice hair, nice teeth, nice eyes, nice skin, muscles Personality: Confidence, manners, intelligence, demeanor, etc... -Just to name a few :)

Anonymous · Answer

well to me just overall healthy look (decently healthy body and your skin, and hair and stuff looks a lot better when healthy trust me) and good hygiene! no you don't need to carry a giant bottle of germx in your pocket but you know clean hair, and smelling nice is needed. oh and I love nice eyes :)

Anonymous · Answer

his social status.  confidence, personality, blah, blah the length and girth of his... wallet

Anonymous · Answer

physically, I love it when guys have a cute smile and a strong jaw line, not too much muscle but some is nice:) but the best quality is definitely their personality, nice, kind, sweet.. theyre always the best guys xx

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