You really need to think over things, and notice you're over reacting. She probably regrets those things. And you honestly don't know why she was crying? You were basically calling her a slut! You're supposed to love her! (I assume).
Dump her, so she can find another guy.
I've had a one night stand, due to being stupid & highly intoxicated. "Taken advantage of" if you want to call it that. It was a "slutty" thing to do, but it don't make me a slut. Don't judge people on their past mistakes.
Douche.
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ya I think you should dump her. if it really bothers you that much than its the best thing you can do and after what happened, I'm guessing you probably don't even trust her anymore, which totally kills the relationship. if you think you should just move on then do it.
It's pretty disrespectful for her to talk about it in front of you, knowing you don't like it.
well hold on man. I feel like I'm the same kind of guy you are. I don't like girls who go out and hook up either. Its unattractive when girls get around.. But you gotta remember, your girlfriend did all that a year ago before you were dating. She has probably matured a lot by then. If she didn't want to admit it around you then it means she's really ashamed about it. Am I missing parts of the story? To me she sounds like a nice girl and it doesn't seem like something you should worry about.
The user Toolt00l, speaks the truth.
What she may have done in the past shouldn't affect you now unless she's continued to do it, which she hasn't. Unfortunately, there are tons of girls that sleep around and trying to find one that doesn't and marry isn't easy. If you can still tolerate her other faults, give her a second chance.
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You have judged her. You haven't accepted her for who she is. You can break up with her, but the odds of you finding another girl who never had a one night stand may be slim... or maybe you will find one... or maybe they will be lying too. who knows. This is your issue and you should apologize for making her cry. I wouldn't be surprised if she dumped you.
To each their own. Don't be disrespectful about it. If you don't find it as something acceptable then leave her...especially if you two discussed it before and she lied. But hear her out and give her a chance to explain-Truthfully. If you still find it something you don't like then yes leave her.
Yeah, I think you'd be doing her a favor. Your preferences aren't something I can really comment on, but your general attitude here shows that you're a little too impulsive and emotional.
This way you can find a "marriage material" girl and she can find a more respectable guy. It's a win-win. This way you two can go find others who are more compatible with you.So you want to be the kind of person you hate and plan on dumping your girlfriend for? Real rational. Do you plan on lying about your little indiscretions when you meet a girl that is disgusted about one night stands? or do you plan on coming clean and losing her altogether while she calls you a nasty manwhore that she can't believe she bragged to her friends about?
did you ever think that maybe she felt the same way you were feeling while writing your update, one year ago? possibly...? maybe she gave up on good guys?
Do her a favor and dump her so she can find a better guy. You're a small-minded jerk.
you seem really uptight. do her a favor and dump her
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