I made a stupid mistake how can I fix it?
I met this beautiful girl in a dating website, and had feelings for her instantly. I have no idea how to describe this feeling but I just knew she... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Its nice that you have feelings for this girl and wanto to be with her,but your moving WAY to fast.
Calm down and chill,here are the things you need to do befor trying again,your just gonna confuse her,and that will because future problums,trust me I know.
1.Know her better.
4.DO the were just real good friends thing.
And if you want her to like you,become a really good friend , a VERY good friend.BUT JUST A GOOD FRIEND FOR NOW.
Hope This Helps,
What Girls Said 6
awwwwww that's so cute...sorry I'm a girl its something that comes instantly...but back to your problem...you say you really care about her and you already told her all you have to do is get to know her talk to her and be yourself and her its not stupid that you said that its adorable and sweet that you care she might be shy and not show it right away just stick to flirting and chatting and eventually she will show you her true feelings :)
um, tbh, I think you should give it up, you sound super committed, which is really great!, but for her, its kind of like, "ohkay..." I think you should move on and totally let someone who cares about you have that chance. their are so many more women in the world than just her, so I think its time for you to GOOO FISHING! :)
K, you did come on too strong and may have freaked her out. If I were you I would back off for a while. Maybe let a week go by (even if she contacts you ) and then contact her but be more relaxed. Be open and communicative but don't talk about any feelings. Keep it short when you first start communicating with her. Be playful and flirt a little but keep it light for a few weeks. This should rebalance your mistake. Then start opening up and talking to her but still don't come on to strong. You'll know when she starts being interested again.
You should be careful. On-line romances can be a scary! She could be married as well. People are not always honest. Just don't want to crush your feelings, so tread carefully here. Putting your heart out there too soon could really be painful. Long distance romances are not always the one for us as well. It is difficult enough having a romance with anyone as it is. Do not make it more difficult by rushing it. If it is meant to be it will develop in time.
sorry, but you kind of already stepped in a zone where you shouldn't have. you need to ask her if you guys can start over, but for girls they don't like a guy moving so fast and that's what you did. if she's willing to give you the chance and think past that, then obviously she sees potential, you sound sweet, just kind of in a rush... so heads up next time, no matter how bad it kills you, wait for time to past when you know for sure that she likes you, you're her bf..
What Guys Said 2
glamphotog pretty much summed it up. but I'd also like to add that I know you think you had feelings for her, but you would never actually know until you met her in person. And that is something that probably wouldn't have ever worked out even if you had never said that.
You can't fix anything. This isn't a naturally way to meet someone. Learn from your mistake and meet a new girl! you'll find one quick and forget about this one
"...and had feelings for her instantly. I have no idea how to describe this feeling but I just knew she was the one"
I stopped reading right there. My friend, BIG mistake. Huge.
She saw the giant red flags and she started running away. If you chase her, she's going to run even faster away from you.
The only chance you have with her is if she stops running and takes a step back towards you. However, there is nothing you can say or do to fix this except for giving her space and time. If she likes you enough, she'll reach out to you. Chances are slim though.
Let it go.