How to get a girl to stop playing games with my emotions?

[Anonymous]

This girl plays games and I just usually don't say anything but I hold in my anger because it annoys me and I will explode soon, what can I do to get her to stop and grow up?

[TheChristian]

Hi there, first you have to explain what you mean by playing games for more specific advice but in general I can tell you that the only way someone can play a game with you is if you are playing along lol. If 2 people decided to play chess and only one person made a move while the other just sat there, then there would be no game lol. So my point is when someone really is meant for you there will be no game to it. The issue is that YOU have to be willing to let her go if you decide to stop playing along and she moves on to someone else. Sometimes the person you want may not the person God intended for you so you don't see eye to eye and it seems like games. God Bless

[Seashell73]

You can't make anyone do what you want them to do or be. Just don't give the negative behavior attention. Tell her you will not converse with her if she can not be more mature about the situation. Stay cool, don't let anyone put your buttons!

[souka]

talk to her before you explode that's the only solution beside she nkow that she is missing with you it's not doing you any good to keep it inside of you that gives her pleasure

[Anonymous]

If its obvious that she playing games don't bother about her .But you need to explain to give you a better answer...maybe she's just a conflicted individual and such people are confusing .

[Stacyzee]

Ignore her. By doing this you are showing her that she can't get the best of you.

[Anonymous]

Games like?

[Asker]

Saying one thing and doing the opposite.