Because guys don't show their emotions as much so him blowing up is him showing some emotion and B, its kinda sexy to see an angry guy all strong and tough, I feel like he could protect me if need be and he could also handle me in bed sorta thing
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I don't know why that happened. I find men who get angry embarrassing. It's more likely to be a turn on if a man is controlled, with calm control over the situation.
First of all, your a goofball. Second of all, drama is lame. A girl shouldn't be into you because you like to be loud and aggressive. Its true, girl's like a powerful and able to handle things kind of man, but it doesn't seem like a way you should use to pick up chicks...its not a strong foundation for a relationship...
It's one of those things where you show your dominance. Some girls like to be over powered and enjoy (most) out-spoken guys (especially ones aiming for justice or that are respecting themselves ie. in the instance of fighting with your ex). It's a sexy-brave complex.
I do not, and I do not know of any females who do. I just asked the gals in the office, most 24-33 y.o., and they don't either. Hmmm...Must be the company you keep.
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I personally do not. I'd take a passive, gentle guy over aggression any day.
Disagree I know a girl like me right after when I got angry and stood up for myself at the other guy. Then got disgusted when I went back to shy and quiet because I didn't talk to her. She was intuitive that I liked her when I didn't make the move to be friends with her.
Temper is one of the biggest turn OFFs for this girl. The first might be because you seemed like a "hero" and the second -- well, how do you know this chick wasn't eyeing you all along but knew you had a gf?
Aggression shows a high level of testosterone. It's based on the primal desire for an alpha male. But TBH I'd actually prefer if the guy hit like a wall versus another person, that sh*t scares me.
i notice more women being turned off by a guy who can't control his emotions...it just means he's still in the habit of behaving like a child...
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everything listed above are all reasons why I wouldn't date a guy... rage and yelling and unnecessary/avoidable bitch-fits are things I avoid like the ebola virus.
you can either take a moment to realize that you've posted a general question and TWO personal stories and assume I've answered to one of the three, OR you can be a little bitch and take my statement personally.
she's kind of right... that wouldn't turn me on. maybe they weren't looking at you becuase they were turned on, maybe they were just surprised at how angry you got. like you said you were making a scene. I like guys to be dominant and powerful, it's hot. yelling and cursing is really not.
HAHAHAHA...nice observation. I once had a girlfriend admit that she came when I lost my sh*t at the scene of a car accident. They're all just little animals.
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I don't like men with a short temper. I would get scared and upset.. I don't like violence..
Sometimes, when he gets angry at someone (or me). It shows that he has a spine.
It's so hot though. Nothing is wrong with angry sex.
Why do you think angry sex is hot?
It's a good release of tension and I like it really rough.
Is that so?
Yes, very much so.
Because guys don't show their emotions as much so him blowing up is him showing some emotion and B, its kinda sexy to see an angry guy all strong and tough, I feel like he could protect me if need be and he could also handle me in bed sorta thing
I don't know why that happened. I find men who get angry embarrassing. It's more likely to be a turn on if a man is controlled, with calm control over the situation.
Huh..? I don't get aroused when men loose their temper.
Those chicks were amused which is different than aroused.
hmmm, they looked pretty aroused to me...
First of all, your a goofball. Second of all, drama is lame. A girl shouldn't be into you because you like to be loud and aggressive. Its true, girl's like a powerful and able to handle things kind of man, but it doesn't seem like a way you should use to pick up chicks...its not a strong foundation for a relationship...
It's one of those things where you show your dominance. Some girls like to be over powered and enjoy (most) out-spoken guys (especially ones aiming for justice or that are respecting themselves ie. in the instance of fighting with your ex). It's a sexy-brave complex.
You mean some women. I get put off by men who lose their temper it's very unattractive to me and a sign that he can't control his temper.
I do not, and I do not know of any females who do. I just asked the gals in the office, most 24-33 y.o., and they don't either. Hmmm...Must be the company you keep.
I personally do not. I'd take a passive, gentle guy over aggression any day.
are you sure?
YES. Short tempers are one of the biggest turn-offs to me, not just because yelling and sh*t is unpleasant, but because it makes me feel unsafe.
Women like power and a man who's angry is powerful, fierce, and sexy
nah for me its a big turn off.. I prefer gentle guy but at the same time someone who can protect me also.
You're making a real assumption there, dude.
They don't get aroused, they get disgusted.
well, sounds typical to a person who was never there to witness it
Disagree I know a girl like me right after when I got angry and stood up for myself at the other guy. Then got disgusted when I went back to shy and quiet because I didn't talk to her. She was intuitive that I liked her when I didn't make the move to be friends with her.
Temper is one of the biggest turn OFFs for this girl. The first might be because you seemed like a "hero" and the second -- well, how do you know this chick wasn't eyeing you all along but knew you had a gf?
girls like a guy who can stand his own, but we don't like childish boys.
and the whole justice thing (when you stopped him from stealing something) is kinda like the fairytale thing lol
Aggression shows a high level of testosterone. It's based on the primal desire for an alpha male. But TBH I'd actually prefer if the guy hit like a wall versus another person, that sh*t scares me.
Truthfully.. Because we imagine the guy bringing some of that agression in the bedroom.
Oh my.
This
i notice more women being turned off by a guy who can't control his emotions...it just means he's still in the habit of behaving like a child...
everything listed above are all reasons why I wouldn't date a guy... rage and yelling and unnecessary/avoidable bitch-fits are things I avoid like the ebola virus.
so people steal from the business your family owns and your gona be a punkass about it?
you can either take a moment to realize that you've posted a general question and TWO personal stories and assume I've answered to one of the three, OR you can be a little bitch and take my statement personally.
sorry, just a little fed up with some people making me look like a damn barbarian
she's kind of right... that wouldn't turn me on. maybe they weren't looking at you becuase they were turned on, maybe they were just surprised at how angry you got. like you said you were making a scene. I like guys to be dominant and powerful, it's hot. yelling and cursing is really not.
HAHAHAHA...nice observation. I once had a girlfriend admit that she came when I lost my sh*t at the scene of a car accident. They're all just little animals.
What do you think the psychology is behind that. We’re you guys driving and she saw you yell at another man?
When they loose it on me. I get scared and cry. On someone else...i get worried. But I like dudes that stand up for themselves.