My girlfriend keeps blowing me off.

Me and my girlfriend are in love. There is just one problem, whenever we make plans she ends up blowing me off for her friends.She is trying not to do this any more. I guess my question is, do you have any tips that could help me and her get through this?


Most Helpful Guy

  • You have to decide, ultimately, how important this is to you. If you don't do anything, it is likely to continue and could even get worse. She knows she can blow you off for her friends with little consequence.

    If it is really important to you, you need to make that clear to her. Give it plenty of thought one night so that when you tell her, you don't do it in anger and don't lose your cool. The both of you have needs in the relationship. Now, she may choose you or she may choose her friends. This is why you must be sure because it has to be something you're willing to walk from. If it is, tell her about it.


What Girls Said 1

  • if I were in love with a guy, I'd more easily blow off my friends than my bf. I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound like she's that in love...


What Guys Said 2

  • i agree. I'm a jealous person so take what I'm saying with a grain of salt, but if a girl seems more in love with her friends than with her boyfriend, it's not right. however, I was jealous of my ex's friends and in the end we broke up because I didn't know how to give her space. so maybe you should try to be understanding, give her space and time and then see what happens. I reacted like an idiot and I wish I hadn't. so learn from other people's mistakes lol!

    • Thanks for all of your answers, they are all a great help.