My boyfriend's female friend is super mean to me and he is OK with it why?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend & I have a great relationship besides for a friend of his.He has a good friend who is a girl and I met her and she was super rude to me.I didn't say anything to her but did ask my boyfriend about it the next day.He said she is just like that and I should not take it to heart.Well she has said some nasty things about me which he told me baout but I let it go.Anyway he calls me on his way home from work everyday last night he didnt.

Today he called em said sorry I didn't call you last night but she called me and asked em to dinner and we had so much fun I don't think you would of had fun that's why I didn't invite you.Well I don't drive right now he asked em to go out withthem tonight to a bar he said I really want to spend time with her because she is going away Monday and why don't you just meet up with us later tonight just meet us there I will text you later & tell you where we are at.I know it does not sound bad but this "woman" has been so rude & mean to me when him & I broke up she went to the resturant where my friend works and was all over my boyfriend he said she just wanted to make you mad because we had a fight and she watches out for me she love me.She has told him he could do better &that I'm a fling and he needs to get over it already.What do I do? I don't want to go tonight because her friends are goinfg to be there & she will be extra mena to me.I love him but I don't think he loves me like he says or he would not let her treat me like this.I couldn't let my friends do this to him.HELP! Should I tell him I can't do this anymore?

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+1 y

i never asked a question before so you have the wrong person

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

She's still giving you trouble, and he still refuses to do anything about it? Yeah I'm sorry to hear that. Still I think my original suggestion is a lot more valid than ever. Just dump him. This is not going to get better. She is not going to stop. If it's been going on like this for this long, and at this point he knows about it, and plainly won't do anything about it, then it's time to leave. I know you love him, but it's time to go. It's just time to go. Time to kick him to the curb and let him know that he clearly doesn't care enough about you to do anything, and let him know just how fed up with him you are. Just leave. Kick him to the curb and don't look back. There's nothing left for you to do.

[PoeticNinja]

I agree with you on this.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

thanks, ninja!

[Asker]

Never asked question before I think you have the wrong person

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Sorry for the mixup. Your situation is very similar to one that some other girl has been asking about many times over. Still,I think you should leave. Just leave.

[7gnat]

Tell him you are done with it and will give him one more chance to either dump her as a friend or have her respect you or you will leave.

[Anonymous]

She definitely is a problem. I think you NEED to be open about this more to him. If you want to continue the relationship just tell him how you feel. You also need to be careful because people pick up how to treat you based on how other people treat you. He likes you but the way she's treating you suubconciously it'll rub of on him and he will start valuing you less and less. The only way you can stop that is by talking to him about it. tell him you respect their relationship but she doesn't respect ours. And he doesn't either. Talk to him and go from there. If he doesn't change or talk to her then it's not gonna get better.