To what extent do you want unpredictability in a partner?
How attractive is unpredictability?
To what extent do you want unpredictability in a partner?
That kind of spontaneity can be fun, especially when you're first starting to date someone and even after you've dated awhile it would keep things from getting stale. That being said though, unpredictability can be a bad thing if it's carried to an extreme. It's one thing to pick me up and then tell me oh yeah, by the way, we're headed to Niagara Falls for the weekend. That's cool and fun.
But it's entirely another to come home and say "yeah, I decided to quit my job, starting a new one on Monday" or to decide suddenly you're moving to Alaska for a year to study whales...That kind of thing isn't so attractive because while I like a fun, laid back person to date, I also like stabilty in my life and couldn't be with someone long term who wasn't working towards that. If you have a solid foundation and in your recreation time you just try random stuff, cool. If you're like that in all aspects of life from personal to career to leisure, it's not attractive. I'd always be afraid of waking up to find you've turned our world upside down AGAIN...
I would like that but if you are unpredictable to the extent of your feelings towards me then I would be annoyed for example if everything was going really good and then out of no where you dumped me that would not be very nice :P But being unpredictable about petty things if always nice.
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I actually like that. If anything, being spontaneous, in a relationship or dating, I think is always a good thing. You should always have an open mind and be down to trying new things, at least I am. You don't want to be doing the same thing all the time, so it's cool that you like to mix things up a bit.
Dislike, don't play around with my food choices. :( Other than that it's good in small doses. I'm not one to play with the unfamiliar, really just depends what kind of girl you get. She might notice this about you and want to be with you for that reason, if this is the case, embrace it.
You should be you. :)
It can be great in the beginning of the relationship but eventually that will become annoying. If I want Italian food, means I want Italian food not something else.
You can be funny, sarcastic, and unpredictable but not all the time. You need to learn how to be serious sometimes. As long as you don't come across being mean or inconsiderate I think it's fine. But again, not all the time!
I think it keeps the relationship fresh, so I'm all for it! Like if a guy just says to me "let's go skinny dipping" or " I have 2 tickets to New York, let's just go for 2 days tomorrow".
Its attractive if used wisely, I mean in a positive way not like you don't want to be predictable at all so you don't give birthday gifts or you bring another girl home and say, hey darling today we are doing a 3 some lol...
I like it if it's just stuff like that. It keeps things interesting.
I don't want anyone who is gonna do things to get themselves or me injured or in trouble though.
Being unpredictable is good because you don't get into a routine of doing the same ol same ol all the time.
Unpredictably is awesome and will keep the girl on her toes. Stability is always what we need too!
Stable unpredictable
It's very attractive, but it if goes too far it becomes too annoying.
love it!
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