What do guys think of quiet introverted girls? Is it a turn off to not have a lot of friends?

[MCLover]

Do guys like girls who are more sociable not necessarily popular, but does like to meet people & always greeting people with a smile on their face?

Do guys find girls like that more attractive than girls who just walk around looking down while they walk & don't hardly talk to anybody?

Is it more attractive to a guy if a girl is more of an extrovert than an introvert?

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In a way I think it does matter because seem like most of the girls who never had boyfriends are introverted girls. When you think about it introverted girls don't really have that many friends which could mean that they don't hang out with guys at all. I think when you don't have guy friends your chances of having a boyfriend is not likely. Plus guys notice extroverted girls more which means they have a chance of getting a boyfriend than introverted girls. So in a way it does matter.

[Brando]

I don't care how other people view her or how she views other people. I care about how she handles herself around me. Some people seem to have this idea stuck in their head that if a person acts a certain way, that's how they are in all areas of life no matter what. This simply isn't true and it really depends on the situation or environment. This same thinking applies to people who label themselves as introverts, thinking that they have no hope in any situation which is poisonous thinking.

My SO is an introvert and isn't too much of a chatter bug. She can talk to people and can be friendly, and even chats people up when she's had a bit to drink lol. But otherwise, she's fine just sitting by herself and not talking to anyone. But when she's talking to me? She can chat up a storm. Like for example when she's telling me about something exciting she did, she speaks a mile a minute and if I didn't know anything else I would think she was a talkative person.

So it really just depends on who you're around and the comfort you have in different situations.

[MCLover]

I get labled that I'm such a quiet girl all the time, but on the real side you just have to get to know me in order to see that I'm not that quiet girl you assumed me to be. I don't consider myself an introvert, but people that don't know me assume that I am. I do agree with you when you said that when people see you quiet one moment they assume that you are always that way which I think is very narrow minded. People should take the time to get to know someone before they make assumptions.

[Orion]

Either one can be attractive depending on the guy.

Some guys like a girl who can mix and be social and party with him and his friends. It brings the social atmosphere up to a higher notch if she's a lot of fun and extroverted. Having lots of friends can also be a benefit when throwing parties or just hanging out in general.

On the other hand

Some guys like the quite girl who they can feel protective over and that they can share nice quite moments with. Someone that moves at a slower pace and might even be more connected with them because they don't has as many friends.

[NellaLee]

some girls have really good social skills but prefer to be quiet and speak when it is important. it is not because they are shy or nervous, but because they prefer introversion. the more you get to know them, the more you find out that it is either negativity or a preference and personality.. That's 99% me. so It depend on what causes that. some guys prefer that and others like extroverts.

[ralph734c]

Personally, it doesn't matter. I've like girls that were extroverted and I've liked girls that were introverted. If they're introverted because they're negative, depressed or in a bad mood most of the time, then that's a turn off. If they're introverted just as a part of their personality, that's fine. Of course, an extroverted girl who is more sociable, smiles and likes to meet people is always going to be more attractive.

[Konnour]

I don't care how sociable, popular or introverted is a girl, but I care about how good can she handle conversations and whether or not is it enjoyable to be around her.

[Lj236]

i think either one can be attractive