Should I avoid the girls who watch the Magic Mike movie?

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Now, that movie is coming out with perfect looking guys according to what I've read. I think it will make me not enough for other girls. In the trailer it says stuff like "the law says don't touch, but I see rulebreakers here" to general female applause. I would die if a girl cheated on me, so that line stung.

So what I am getting is that when a girl watches this movie she will want to go cheat with male strippers who are better than you are. A couple of my female friends want to go watch it and I have not talked to them since ( 3 days). My ex might want to get back with me, but if she watches this movie I will say no.

I don't look that bad, I'm lean with definition but I'm not too strong or that ripped even after going to the gym for a long time.

Suggestions? What do I do?

catgirl9 · Accepted Answer

Magic Mike is just a movie.  it is not going to make girls have higher standards or make them want to cheat. If they would even consider cheating after hearing a line like that, they were probably a cheater to begin with. Girls iwll go see this movie because of all the good looking actors in it.  They will probably talk about it for a while afterward, but at the end of the day most will have a good head on their shoulders and look for a down to earth normal guy. PLus this question is a bit of a double standard.  There are tons upon tons of movies where beautiful, toned women are walking around half naked.  Men drool over these movies everyday.  that hasn't caused some spike in cheating or high standards.  This is one of the first movies that flaunts a male's body rather than a females.  In the end, a girl is who she is.  She will not be a changed person because of one movie. So your decision to not  talk to girls that have seen this movie is really inecure, shallow, and frankly stupid.

DebiPie · Accepted Answer

My, but you are an insecure little guy, aren't you? You have made a mountain out of a mole hill.

STOP IT! Do you hear me? Just stop it. Do you think that all of the women in the world should call off their weddings because their grooms to be had strippers at their bachelor parties? And you know they looked & touched. We all know that. So what do you think? Should women all call off their weddings? And all of the other women break up with their boyfriends & husbands who attend those things? Not to mention the men who go to strip clubs?

Get a grip man! You are being unreasonable. This is a movie. No one is touching anyone. And for that matter, if you go by your logic, you had better not let any of your women watch any movie, because we lust after all the men in all of the movies too.

Grow up.

Danni23 · Accepted Answer

Hahaha no. I want to see this movie A. because I'm a girl who likes abs. and B because I enjoy comedies. I know for a fact afterward I'm not going to run off with a stripper because I look for a more committed relationship and seriously? What girl goes bragging about how she hooked up with a stripper? At the end of the day its just a movie and I won't compare men to this movie because chances are its not going to be a classic.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That would make you seem like a controlling and inconsiderate guy. Guys go to strip clubs a lot more than women. I can drive down the road and spot 3 or 4 strip clubs for men, but I couldn't tell you if one for women even existed in the city. Why should men get to have entertainment, while women don't?

Trust is a major component of a relationship. I think something like a silly movie like this is more of a trust issue with you than them.

Guess what - male strippers are not better than you are. They're strippers because they can't make it otherwise. There's a lot more to a person than their looks. Trust me...I dated a stripper that I met in a club. There's a lot more than just looks.

izzybolden · Accepted Answer

I understand your concern man. The best advice I can give you is to be patient. Yeah, I definitely believe a handful of women that are heavily influenced by Western society have unrealistic standards. However, I doubt every woman in the world has the same exact preference.

taster · Answer

Like they said..it's a MOVIE...Not Real...most females I know have much stronger character, intelligence and judgement than that...O.O...How did you get such an unjustifiably low opinion of females?  ...o.O

Anonymous · Answer

i don't think it should matter, I mean they should know that these guys in the movie don't look perfect. like in magazines are airbrushed, well they probably do something similar in the movies.

as for your ex. you guys probably broke up for a reason. I wouldn't get back with her anyways. but that's just me.

AskChloe · Answer

It's just a movie. There's no need to be getting all insecured over a movie trust me it's a waste of good energy.

rivflo89 · Answer

In reality I've never heard of male strippers being exactly like the guys on "Magic Mike" OK. Its a movie and change your depressed attitude not sexy

foolycooly1001 · Answer

My suggestion is get over it.  It's basically softcore p*rn.

HannahC · Answer

nah, girls just want to see hot guys in a movie. Not my type of movie, but my friends are fans of a few actors in it.

Anonymous · Answer

Its a movie, don't read too much into it.

Anonymous · Answer

Troll.

Anonymous · Answer

Get over it

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