Why do people assume a beautiful girl is stuck up and conceited?

veronica12
You will never hear someone say that an ugly girl is stuck up. By nature, I walk with good posture, head held high, and feet on straight line. I have a nice fashion sense, and when I walk, I don't stare people down (Id rather look straight ahead), when I rarely meet someone´s eyes I give a polite small, yet follow my path. when a pretty girl is walking, and people say she's stuck up only because she doesn't look at them, when they are STARING at her. It is awkward that's why she doesn't look back, because everyone is staring at her when she enters a room, a store, the street. If they talk to me, Ill be the friendliest person. My friends say "jeez before the first time talking to you I though you were so stuck up"..also should I add I don't like looking at men, because that makes me smile, and then they approach me thinking I like them. What do you think? I can't go around with a grin on my face all the time, looking at everyone. Point of this question is that recently I went to a meeting with my parents, and a friend of them told my aunt (who told my mom), how I "had entered a room with a stuck up vibe because everyone had looked at me and I didn't look back nor smile". I find that ridiculous and incredibly judgmental. During the four days at that congress, men were staring me down ALL the time, which I dislike because they get the wrong idea if I smile. However with the women I met eyes with I smiled politely, I always say please and thank you, and always greet when I enter somewhere (eg a bathroom I say good evening to the cleaning lady, or a shop good morning to the salesperson)
Why do people assume a beautiful girl is stuck up and conceited?
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